Relationship Issues (Jealousy) Please Help Clutchfans

The only thing you can do is be the best dude you can be for her and provide for her more than any other dude can. Make yourself a valuable asset that she can't afford to lose/replace. She shouldn't risk it because she knows its not worth it. If you continuously degrade yourself, your hurting your own value. Your telling her, "i'm afraid of you leaving me for another guy" when you she should be telling you she's afraid of losing you.

I understand long distance relationships have trust issues. But still there are other ways to build value over long distance. Things to help her relieve stress, be happy, and be emotionally satisfied will cement your position on her emotional side which later on will help you with the physical side.

This only applies if she's been a good friend, and a good girl who has been honest and truthful with you up to this point. You can only build trust with honesty and vice versa.

 

So you're about to become an adult.

Your relationship was effectively over when you first became aware, I mean suspicious of something going on.

So you know, Flight Attendants marry Pilots just like Nurses marry Doctors.

That’s like saying:

She's a waitress not a stripper, all she does is serve drinks..
a few weeks later
She's a stripper not a prostitute, all she does is dance....

 

If she was "the one", I highly doubt you would be freaking out about her every move. I'm just throwing that out there.

 

Classic.

 

Don't worry ... the thadeus never does the same woman twice.

 

“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy” ~Walter Anderson

^to paraphrase, either figure out a way to trust her (real trust, not sticking her on a leash), or break it off. Sounds like you got some major insecurity issues, man.

 

Nah man, you need to improve. There is no trying. you need to start by not checking her email. i'm not a jealous person, and never have been so I'm not qualified to offer advice on that. maybe you need to seek help or something. I can tell you that no girl wants some jealous dude who doesn't trust them and it will ruin every relationship you ever have if you don't get it in check.

 

Does this mean she had a couple of luxury options added?

 

Or once for that matter

 

Then quit being an untrusting ass, and enjoy the time with her...make her not want to be with anyone else.

DD

 

That's interesting. I've flown them a few times from Houston -- is she based there? She's not the thin Asian girl that works the desk in front of the boarding gate?

Small world if so

 

I think you should tell your girl these words ASAP:

You are my fire, the one desire. Believe when I say I want it that way. But we are two worlds apart, can't reach to your heart. When you say that I want it that way. Tell me why, ain't nothing but a heartache. Tell me why, ain't nothing but a mistake. Tell me why. I never wanna hear you say I want it that way. Am I your fire, your one desire. Yes I know it's too late, but I want it that way. Now I can see that we're falling apart, from the way that it used to be, yeah. No matter the distance I want you to know that deep down inside of me...You are my fire, the one desire. You are you are, you are, you are...Don't wanna hear you say, ain't nothing but a heartache. I never wanna hear you say I want it that way.

 

You need to read my blog. FLight attendants rank high on my " occupations that strain a relationship" list. 1. stripper.
2. Astronaut
3. Flight attendant
4. Md. Anderson researcher


Actually, I agree that a relationship without trust will not get very far. You should speak to her about the way you're feeling. Communication is your best ally.


And post the holiday party picture or a link to her social network.

 

I think that means you have discovered that her a** tastes like candy.

About Flight Attendants marry Pilots just like Nurses marry Doctors.

Unfortunately for you it’s true about most professions with hectic schedules.
If their schedules don't line up exactly then they are at least similarly hectic. They have similar work environments and are used to working odd hours and being in relationships where the other person may not be around much and they know what to expect.

It’s also why cops and emt's get it on in the backs of ambulances.

 

So you want marriage certs and proof of employment?