Relationship Issues (Jealousy) Please Help Clutchfans

That means she trusts you. Maybe she wouldn't tell you that if she was banging them? I don't know.

It's tough for me to say. I think you would KNOW If she was that type of girl.

 

Man, I don't know what to say to be honest. There's almost no honest advice I can give you because there's very little chance of this working out. I don't know you personally, but you're coming off as a stalker dude. Seriously, you sound obsessed with this chick and that's unhealthy. You need to chill out but it doesn't appear you can at the moment. How old are you?

 

Kindly allow me to expand on this.

The absolutely worst thing you can do with a woman at the beginning of a relationship is show insecurity or lack of confidence. It's sure poison. Women thrive on confident men.

I can't say that I blame you 100% for being insecure about the situation. The bottom line is that this girl is jetting around the world, staying in strange places and hanging out with new people all of the time. If you can't handle it, you should probably get it over with and split up now.

As a single guy (and you are single until you tie the knot IMO), you should be familiar with this: The Ladder Theory

 

Dude ugly ho's are the ones who get more dingleberry and sex than any other type of woman ever... They will jump on the very first coconut that falls off the tree.. They don't get hit on a lot that's why they get married at a very young age like 19, LOL.. They don't play the waiting game like the hot chicks do...

 

Not really, and I'm not even saying that to be a dick. Chicks love to do that. If a chick is really hot, then chances are she had that princess attitude growing up. Hottest chick in high school, ect.....Now, there are a bunch of other chicks just as hot (or at least close) wherever she goes and she's insecure herself. If you have a hot chick then guys are going to look at her and hit on her when you're not around. No point in being jealous on insecure. If you don't trust your chick then you shouldn't be with her.

 

That reminds me. Some single guy friends of mine (all quite wealthy, drive nice cars, have nice houses), go over to the Hilton Americas on Tuesday nights, because that's when the Emirates' flight attendants stay there. These guys claim the FAs are beautiful and like to drink and "mingle" with gentlemen.

hope that helps

 

Grow up !

There is nothing you can do if she wants to get it on with someone else.

She is in the relationship by choice, and you are making her choice to be there questionable by acting like a petulant child who doesn't want to share his toy.

Trust her, or lose her...it is all on you !

DD

 

McGrady, end this relationship immediately. Then, you must take a breath of oxygen, and then cultivate a new relationship with a less ambulatory woman.

 

Dude, if my girl checked my email it would be over in a second. I broke off a 3 month relationship because I caught a girl going through my phone. You can't judge her by what other people do. It's your relationship man. I'm telling you, you're going to be in for a really hard fall if you don't change quickly. You also need to understand that this is a young relationship and very rarely do those end up the way you're wanting them to. You're supposed to be enjoying this and it seems like you hate it. Think about that

 

You want advice? F**king grow up dude.

I'm not trying to be an ass but you need to chill seriously. You have some insecurity issues. You need to realize you're only 22. If you're already checking her emails, I can promise you this relationship or any other relationship you get involved will never work out. You are smothering her and it's pretty obvious.

If she is hot or the prettiest as you say she is, I can promise you she's getting hit on. You're only making her case even stronger for her to go with them. If you're so worried about her leaving you, maybe you're in the wrong relationship. You shouldn't have to worry about that at all if you're in a good trusting relationship.

Nicolas Sparks books..... Seriously dude... It's not the NoteBook. Relationships are tough at times and it's not going to perfect. I think you should probably go see someone about your insecurities....

 

Hahahahaha. Repped

 

Oh... I forgot something to add but I will spoiler it.

Spoiler

You can't have your heart in one hand and your dick in the other hand. It will hurt you in the long run.

 

She'll cheat or she won't. You're 22. This won't be the last girl you're ever with and you won't be the last guy she's ever with.

Enjoy the time you have with her.

Treat it like "dating", as opposed to a "relationship," if that helps the jealousy.

 

Post some pictures of this so called girl. So we can see if she is worthy?