If you truly did nothing wrong, then I would blow her off. There is nothing worse than a jealous girlfriend. She'll either take you back or she won't. But I certainly wouldn't apologize if I didn't cheat. Jealous women are bad news.
really?? i think when you go spend the night in another girl's bed...particularly an ex-girlfriend's bed...you've blown through trust. there's an intimacy with that which most people wouldn't be comfortable with. i wouldn't be thrilled if a girl i dated a while said, "oh, yeah...i spent the night at my ex-boyfriend's house last night...but nothing happened." first, i'd have a hard time believing NOTHING happened. second, what the frick were you doing going over there and spending the night? not trying to make you feel worse about this...but i wouldn't trust you either. and i doubt i'd believe your story, either. even if i wanted to.
if you felt nothing for her you wouldn't be hanging out with her and certainly not sleeping in her bed. you left open the possibilities for something to happen. you should think about why.
I'm not sure I believe his story, either. But getting defensive only makes it worse. What's done is done. If you didn't cheat, you should let her figure it out.
tell her that when you were with the ex-girlfriend - you shouted her name as loud as you could. oh, btw - you're a dumbass, but you probably know that by now: sleeping in the same bed as an ex AND getting caught...way to go. i hope this works out for you, but i'd understand why it might not.
I don't even believe you, and there's no reason for you to lie here. You say you visited your ex and slept over but you have no feelings for her. That's bull****; I don't believe that for a second. And for women, the emotional betrayal is as bad as (or essentially the same thing as) a sexual betrayal. You essentially have cheated on her.
LMAO! Seen that one before. Good luck with it dude, sounds like you really are screwed. Miss Palmer is on her way to help out.
You're screwed. If you con your way back in, you'll be kissing ass for the rest of your life. If she forgives you, she might never feel strong enough int he relationship to take it to the next step. If you don't say anything, you will be assumed guilty. Like I said, Your screwed.
How so? Miss Palmer is the least complicated sexual relationship you can have. Unless you happen to be Dr. Strangelove. As for Franchise. The only solution I see if you want to set things right with your current GF is to get on your knees and do some serious begging. Like others I don't believe your story and I don't even know. I also think you still have some issues to work out with your ex. People that feel nothing for someone usually don't spend the night in their bed.
I've actually done the same thing as franchise before cept we did alot of kissing I told my current gf we didnt have sex, but she didnt believe me and to this day she still believes i slept with the other girl I should of just taken the chance when I had it, but nooooo stupid morales.
Don't worry about it too much - in two years, it won't seem to matter very much once you're out of high school. -- droxford
Well, as long as nothing happened, cool for you, but if your current g/f feels betrayed, you might as well hit it...meaning, your screwed unless she's super understanding...It takes a lot and if she feels betrayed, its going to take a lot to get that trust back... Being selfish is an excuse we all use, but me, being a typical guy, do stuff that just doesn't make sense...I feel your pain and good luck...
When the negative backlash comes, just be a man and take it in an understanding way. Understand in your mind ... and deep down.... that you're really on your girlfriend's side in this. Maybe in a year (or ten) you can laugh together about boneheaded things that guys do. BTW, have you thought about what would comfort you if your gf had slept over at her ex's? Good luck.
Don't do anything in half measures. If you are going to go over to your ex-girlfriend's house for no good reason you may as well do the deed. Especially if you spend the night in the same bed. If you are going to betray your girlfriend, or at least put yourself into the position where it looks like you did, don't ever tell her anything. What's the point? In the unlikely event that you are being truthful and you didn't have sex with the ex there is no point in telling your girlfriend anything. If you love your girlfriend there is always the option of not putting yourself in these kinds of situations, of course.
Come now lets not turn this into a race thing and start blaming hispanics. I know they can get self righteous about their Catholicism but please lets keep this out of the D & D. I'll have to watch 24 some more. I guess Jack Bauer being would have to um.. realive his stress privately some time over that 24 hour period.
