That really blows. It sucks, and it hurts like hell. It will keep hurting because you guys lived with each other. So there will be certain things that you're used to doing together that you will always remind you of her, and may not be the obvious stuff. Try and look at the bright side as much as you can. Maybe there were shows she wanted to watch that you didn't and now you can watch what you want. You can watch TV or listen to music later or earlier because you don't have to keep quiet for her. Anything at all that you couldn't do because of you being considerate for her you don't have to. Try and enjoy little things like that. Just make yourself better, learn from this, and be happy that you're finding out now rather than later. Sorry about the tough times. Best of luck.
Sorry to hear it man, but my only advice is to not try to get her back or get some kind of closure or whatever it is you want. She really sounds like she's done. Be a man and let her go. If she ever wants to come back she'll let you know. And you have a better chance of getting her back if you take this advice.
I wonder as well espesh if it's unhealthy, been there done that multiple times, obv didn't learn. Anyways fighting a lot and about dumb things is unhealthy...y'all should break up y'all have your whole Lives in front o y'all ...do it if you love her, bc if not, she will within two Yeats a almost gaurantee from my experiences, and my friends...
I've gone to see a counselor before on the suggestion of a doctor. Went 4 weeks then told him he was full of **** and dealt with it on my own. 2012.... What a life we live these days.
You're 23 and she's around the same age. It sucks man, but sometimes people have to evolve on their own and see the world for themselves. I think both of you need some room to breathe especially because things aren't old fashioned anymore. Too many choices, options, and distractions that allow people not to grow up while making grown up decisions, if you get my drift. The events happening to you will be tough, but stay strong and keep busy improving yourself. Believe it or not, but you're really young, and life has only just begun.
