I agree. This is the type of guys women want anyway. Why else they be attracted to them? Contrary to what alot of guys were told their entire lives, women don't want mushy, overly caring, monogamous, LTRs, hearing I-love-you's, or whatever. They want that from the guys they LIKE. Why would they want to be monogamous or have a LTR with a guy they don't like? They have to like you FIRST. Big difference.
Here's my super duper secret mystery method of picking up skanks at bars: 1. Find the sloppiest, drunkest girl that is still standing. 2. Talk to her and agree with everything she says. 3. Offer to drive her home because you are sober. There it is!! Mystery.... solved.
Agree...agree...agree...sets work most of the time, but most people don't realize. Most of what girls ask for sometimes is smoke & mirrors...the one's that ask for a guy that looks like Brad Pitt, makes at least 100 K a year, at least 6,2 or whatever. Whocares. You can pull those kinda of girls in a minute. Confidence thing is not really even major...I don't think you need a lot of it to do something as easy to get a girl. I would say it's more about looking "competent" or "not acting out of character." It's more about being sociable....good way to learn this is two talk to people you don't normally talk to. Talk (or if they talk to you) to someone like cashier, bus driver, some random person on the street, someone of another race/social group/religion, homeless people, older people, kids, or whoever. People used to think I was shy because I didn't talk that much, but in reality I just hated talking. Don't be self-deprecating unless you can be funny with it...i notice people, especially girls do get kick out of it. Another thing is if you don't have strong social skills, yet...don't try to go after girl that's in group (more than 3)...they might not be good place for you to start... It's not that hard, and maybe work on your non-verbal communcation. I mostly learned that speech classes and acting Besides, it shouldn't be to hard for some guys, if they stay in the club long enough...they're chances of scoring should be gradually increasing with all the drunks I've come across...i don't think you need to much confidence to get some of them. Agree with this one, too. You will become a more confident person with more friends and possibly bigger dating people. But there are gonna people you can't get to, it's magical wand stick...some people have their hang-ups, obsessions, and idealistic b.s...but don't worry, even if most of the people you talk to it, don't respond you will get eventually, because you're active...naturally the more active you are....more experience....more lessons...more confidence....VOILA To be honest, if Cindy Crawford or Leelee Sobieski walked into a club tonight and you were there...there is probably a good chance she won't be interested in you....one because she gets hit on all the time, approached relentless. But to be honest, eve I agree with this one, too. I'm on the fringe of dating someone everyweekend or at least every other week to not dating at all. Let me be honest when I say this I Hate Dating....never really like it and thought it was a colossal waste of time unless....you date someone you already know or are friends with. Then some dates really weren't dates at all I kinda lead to u know what. And some of them where complete disasters. It's not enjoyable if you do like marathon, maybe because I am older and some weekends I just can't manage to get my round ass of the chair or out of the bed. Another thing is, if you see most of girls are kinda....you know or have certain character flaws (being needy, being materialistic, being kinda loose, being money hungry, might have few kids that you don't know about, and etc). Might make you run faster than pit bull running away from Vick You get to point where you've seen dated and everybody...it's like this is real drag. I rather have that one person who is always around and make you laugh or seems to be really loyal compared to random selection 2,000 other girls. If you have ever watched Shallow Hal with Jack Black, in the scene where his character is talking to Jill (Susan Ward) and he is talking to her about Rosemary. That's kinda what start to look for in perspective gfs or spouses and then for some reason you're not as eager to go out and snatch up every
I think u have t realistic with your goals. if u arent good looking,and/or rich u cant really expect to pull someone that looks like a victoria secret model, no matter how tight your "set" is samething in the personals when a woman states she wants a guy thats: atleast 6'2, 8 pack abs, 7 figure salary, 15 inch schlong, and will treat her like a princess. yet im willing to bet these chicks are all ugly, if they werent why post in the classifieds?
Nail right in the center of head. I never understood about some chicks....she asks for all this stuff and she looks like cross between Eddie Munster and Stay -Puft Marshmellow Man in Ghostbusters.
