I just came out the closet...and i dont know what to do...my parents hate me...and our about to kick me out the house...and i think i hate myself even more for waiting so long....any advice guys????
I just wanna reply so you won't go back and edit your post .. better late than never man.. it's OK to come out of the closet! of course you're gonna have some difficulty at first, but with time, people, parents, etc.. will come to accept your gheyness and will be cool with you..
on a side note, you'll def. be accepted at least on this board.. we've had several people come out of the closet and we've treated them very nicely.. first, AdeelSidiqui came out, then unfortunately he went back and denied, but we provided the needed support for him.. then, Yaozer partially came out by openly exclaiming "ever been blowed by a man?" ..we helped him out too.. reason # 75912 to love the hangout..
Give it time...The fact is you are family.... You are still you. They may never be fully comfortable and you have to come to terms with that and it is understandable tio be mentally taxed during times like these. Just remeber that the literally approach and often cliched saying of one day at a time is going to apply here...That is the only way to go forth and it is important to stay in contact despite the initial reaction because you want to at least keep the family ties...One day at a time and to give it patience.
I don't know what you're talking about. There were never such a statement made by me. Nope. As to the OP... ...ok I don't really have any good advice. But good luck with everything, hope things improve. If you need a place to stay, I'm sure Kam would be more than happy to provide you with a temporary home.
To properly deal with the situation, you have to understand where your parents are coming from. Their legacy, their heritage, their name, will most likely not carry on through you - therein lies the disappointment. You've been their whole life for so long, and now they feel like they failed that somehow. But, the more they think about it, the more they'll realize what's most important: You. It's only a matter of time. Anyway...to get this back on the right (Hangout) track, I just wanted to ask what you thought about that "Scottie Pippen Is Gay" report from a year or so ago?
You coming out of the closet, that's your own personal business and if that's cool.....cool. But your signature, "We'll miss you greatly Scottie?" Scottie Pippen??? Please tell me that signature is not about Quitten Pippen.
I would get some counseling. Immediately. Friends are great, as are supportive family, but if you are encountering resistance from those who are supposed to love and support you the most, you should seek out some non-biased professional help as soon as you possibly can. People have quite literally killed themselves over familial rejection. Its nothing to play around with.
