I know I shouldn't be, but I'm in actual disbelief about what folks are willing to lie abou... that is, open up about in this thread. It's outstandingly odd, and oddly outstanding.
Or it might be that you have a woman that is not connecting with you sexually and vice versa - thus your belief that you don't need to give her the satisfaction she needs plus that you are incredibly selfish.
i think what aussie is trying say is that overall, if we had our choice with no regards to the consequences, that we as guys would rather receive than give. i certainly would.
Sexual desire plays to the human ego. Some people stroke their ego's by being takers and some as givers, either way we seek aggrandizment of our prowess. However, since 1/2 of all women never achieve orgasm through coitus and up to 70% do only rarely, if you want happy campers and return engagements you better get with the program. Oral sex is all about power and control. On the surface it appears that the giver his sublimating himself to the reciever,doing the deed to give plaesure but there is also the aspect that the doer then has the power to control the deed and to hold a debt over the reciever to be collected later. Also men, women have a much more complex relationship with their sex organs than we do. They have that period thing and the fact that their cl*t and twat aren't in the same place. And imagine if all the sensitivity of your penis was shrunk down to one little wang 1/10 it's male size. Sometimes they can experience pleasure we can't imagine and sometimes it's too sensitive to even beathe on . And where is mutal masturbation on the list? It can really help a woman with "issues' get there (with the added bonus of being able to make out while you do it)
That's making the false assumption that every single guy is exactly the same. If I had to pick one or the other, I'd pick giving. Nothing turns me on more than seeing my woman enjoying herself with me. And no, smartasses, that doesn't mean she's terrible at giving...it's quite the opposite.
I was looking forward to trying the "swish" and possibly the "swirl" (depending on how the "swish" worked) this weekend, but alas....it was....well, that time of the month. That's the bad news, but the good news is that ima and the future Mrs. ima are off the hook for another month! This particular month was...a little stressful in that department, if you catch my drift.
I know what you're saying. My wife picked the perfect time to come back, just as her visitor was leaving. We gots a whole month to make up for some lost time!!
Dome is good if you have no energy especially when they swallow. You just lie back and let the girl do all the work.
I've heard those numbers before, and I'm extremely dubious. I guess I've lucked out during my "career," or those numbers are wrong. My experience is more along the line of the woman having multiple orgasms. (not "faked" ones. it is possible to tell the difference with experience) I also disagree that oral sex "is about power and control." Like any act, sexual or not, power and control can enter into it, but to paint with such a broad brush is rediculous, with all due respect.
Since this thread won't die I will ask, BJ or Russian? This question may ultimately kill this thread. Why I ask? Because I remember a late night debate at Jester. The guy who argued for BJ (my freshman year roommate) said a good BJ is better than intercourse. The guy who argued for Russian (down the hall with green hair) said BJs were lame. If I had to choose I'd take the Russian dude's GF...she was a Latina with big hooters.
Anyone who thinks a good BJ is better than intercourse hasn't had much in the way of experience with intercourse.
That all depends on the women's "talents." I've only had one woman ever give good oral sex. Oh, and if a woman truly acheives an orgasm, she'll get just as sensitive as we do afterwards. Multiple orgasms are a myth.
See, I have asked multiple women about this because when I first heard about it freaked me out. Almost every woman I have asked, with the exception of maybe 2, has said 'getting off' for them is just like it is for men in that they won't be able to do so again without some rest most of the time. Sure the occasional one more pops up but it is rarer than thought.
That's not entirely true...I do believe it is harder for some women than others...Some women are more in tune with their own body and chemistry and some women are just more experienced...my last g/f had them all the time, every session, and I mean every session, she had multiple o's, and we did it alot... Some women, it just takes longer and they have to be emotionally there, IMHO...
