Many, many women have been molested in the past and are perfectly fine. I'm sure some men here have unknowingly dated them and it had no meaningful impact on the relationship, sexual or otherwise. I wouldn't use that to define a person.
I'm actually thinking she's lying to him. I'm thinking options (2) or (3) on my list are probably more accurate.
The first part I don't agree with. Foreign women are just as crazy as American women. The second part I agree with. Molestation is a big big issue and especially if she hasn't seen a therapist. Some women will never feel comfortable ever again. A lot of women that have been molestednormally seek a lot of men's attention. I'm not saying she isn't a good person but if she has dealt with the issue itself, it can be a destrictive relationship....
No it shouldn't define a person but it can cause issues if it hasn't been dealt with in the proper manner.
Exactly... everyone has baggage, sometimes it takes some people longer than others to stow it in the over head compartments and get it out of the way. Saying that he should run from her because of that situation is weak.
I'm only through 2 pages and my sides hurt already from the pics and one liners. Well done guys. Can't wait to read more....
You are absolutely right, and when/if she does figure them out, it won't be with him, it will be down the line and some other man will benefit. This guy is in a no win situation. He obviously wants to date her, and has interest in her as a mate, she is either not interested or not able.... in either case he needs to move on... but he won't, and that is precisely why she is comfortable using him.
A-Dub, don't give up if you really believe you have a connection with this girl. Just don't give all of yourself to her right now. Be "more than friends", go on dates, just quit being the "boyfriend/husband" that you are not.
I don't get why girl's either take advantage or do not want a guy that is "treating her like a queen" but yet chooses to be with a guy that treats her like s*** and probably have stds.
