First, I would like to thank everyone for the advice and roasting :grin: . I'm usually the type of guy that laughs at people with relationship threads but all these different opinions help greatly. It sure beats the typical guy response, "No sex, no want" advice from my real life friends. Now, I'll try to explain my situation better. Man, that's exactly the type of girl she is. She even said those exact words. Thing is, every other man she got with, left her ass after they found out she wasn't giving up the vagina. I'm the only one who stayed. lol its all good. rather be roasted by my clutchbros than my ******* friends in real life . you're right, at least you get some. FML (finally got to use that one) It's not like I was that nice. I treated her like any living person should be treated. I wasn't being wussy, no balls nice. But I will say I was never an ******* to her or treated her like s***. So you may have a point. Yup. It very much feels like a one-way relationship. I even told her that relationships go two-ways. She said, "No, they don't have to." Wow, and I still kept talking to her. See, but I did "nut up". She says "I'm more than a friend" and then the dreaded, "What if we break up?" I replied, "Yeah, that happens in relationships." And that was about it. This was on Valentines Day. We still kept talking and went out another time after that and here I am in this situation. Ok, I didn't start treating her like my girl right away. It was until we got deeper into the "relationship". In fact, I didn't spend a dime on her (besides whenever we went out) for at least the first 3 1/2 months. So I didn't start treating her like my girl or putting her on the magic pedestal until I knew or thought I knew she really liked me. She is a materialistic girl so I figured if she still wanted to talk to me after this long of not buying her stuff, then she must like me for me . We got a long really well. Talked on the phone all the time, even for hours on some occasions. She'd call me all the time. But not too much, we both gave each other space. It was not like that though. Besides no sex, we connected everywhere else. I wasn't giving her everything right away but I don't think I made her "work hard enough" for how good I treated her either. As for the friend zone, it does feel very friend zone-ish but according to her, I'm more than a friend. Whatever that means . I think I'm stuck somewhere after the friend zone and before relationship zone. Chris Rock needs to touch on this zone in his next stand up. But I think I already know my answer. I wanted to see what everyone else thought so I could see if I'm crazy or not. Closure is what I'm looking for so I'll have to have another talk with her (when shes not busy with school of course ) and break down my view of this "relationship". I really did like this girl though but only because I thought she felt the same way. I'm not the kind of guy that just falls for any pretty girl. Thanks to all the love doctors who offered advice. Even the comedians, yall always make me smile. Very nice of you guys to take time out from being GMs and coaches to help out a clutchbro with some crazy (normal?) women problems.
Yeah, that should have answered any question you had about that girl. Despite the way she may act, she sounds pretty self-centered to me. Either that, or she just doesn't know how to be honest or how to let someone down.
Angkor Wat- You are getting played. Move on. Get rid of her and see if she comes back to you. This is a classic case of a hot girl taking advantage of someone. Kick her ass to the curb
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Angkor Wat - Sounds like a typical case of you like her more than she likes you. She can say you're more than a friend all she wants I doubt that is the case (unfortuntately). You're getting played, son!
Angkor... After reading your responses to all the comments, she sounds like an immature, stuck up and borderline psycho b****. Anyone that says relationships are one way has some serious issues. I've met some girls like that in the past and although they are attractive and fun to be around, but at the end of the day they are dead inside. Hit it and quit it....oh wait, nevermind. Just quit it.
Blake is right.. she's probably 'using' another dude the same way she's done you... once he loses interest because of no vajayjay she'll give you a call because you have been spoiling her... if she calls she calls but don't call her... move on and find another fish...
