Open Relationship

It means your probability of transacting an STD just went up! congrats... I wish you the best..

 

Ok, help me out with this guys. Don't mean to hijack but didn't want to create a new one. Trying to understand this crazy ass girl.

Let me break it down.

-been talking to this girl for like 7-8 months.
-no sex involved. says she is a virgin, not a problem because i actually like this girl
-never committed to actually being my GF but calls me babe,honey,baby,ect. in txt messages.
-i treat her like a queen. do things only a BF/Husband would do for her
-asked her if she sees me as just a friend or what, she says "more than a friend"
-says I fit ALL her qualities. not just one or two, but all of them.
-puts school first, which is cool with me. so we barely go out. I say we've been out like 5-6 times since we talked. There has also been times where she doesn't answer my calls or returns them for weeks. says "she's busy with school", I'm ok with it, not flipping out.
-recently, haven't returned/called back in like 3 weeks. last time we talked was when I took her to get her hair did.

Am I wasting my time? I really do like this girl but for some reason can't get any type of commitment from her. I feel she talks to other guys. A lot more recently since we haven't talked in like 3 weeks. I mean, she can't be that busy with school right? Too busy to call the man that fits all her qualities and treats her like a queen, just once in 3 weeks for 2 minutes? But she's not officially my girl, so do I have a right to care if she talks to other guys?

There are times when I do feel she really likes me and wants to be with me and then there are times when it doesn't feel that way (the whole not calling back/talking thing). I don't know what else I can do and honestly feel I've more than enough for a girl that isn't my girlfriend. Help me out CF brothers! I need some advice.

 

Someone would like to show her a diamond, but it's not you:

Spoiler

 

This is the case of one of those "I can get any man I want" kind of girls. She's not committed to being in a relationship with you. You can just tell by the weeks of not calling, I mean friends don't even do that to each other, no matter how busy they are. IMO, I think you're wasting your time. But, maybe you should question her about all of this, see what she says... get a better perspective on what you two are together.

 

My mostly uninformed prediction: Stop treating her like a princess and start treating her like **** and I bet you'll be in her pants in no time.

That's not to say I advocate treating women like ****, but that's just my read on the type of girl she is. If true, then drop her.

 

you are getting used or she might just not be attracted to you.

if yall have only been out 5 or 6 times in 8 months then she sucks...move on.

 

your wasting your time if your looking for a relationship and im guessing you are cause 7 months is too dam long to not have hit it already and her not being your gf

shes probably lying about being busy with "school"
if you really do like this chick then ask her to be your gf or to make more time for you and figure out where all her busy time really goes

 

LOL. Yup, this pretty much sums it up.

 

Sounds like you're wasting your time man. You should of saw this in the beginning...

Secondly... Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve. You need to learn how to not jump soo quickly. Women will tear you apart my friend.

 

THIS.

Man have I learned.

EOB......

Everything over b****es.....

Act like you dont give a ****....but still be the "cool" guy.....

It works....Dont just throw yourself out there......Women are evil creatures....evil I tell you.

 

I think every guy has gone through this at one point or another. You have to learn before it really cost you in the end. Gladly I was one of those guys that learned through other people's mistakes. I was burned before but not nearly as bad as some of the guys I know.

You gotta make a woman want you as much as you want her. You can't be the only person....

 

It's hard to walk the line between this and the bitter, jaded arsehole.

 

"no matter how far down you've gone down the wrong road, turn back"

 

Maybe Angkor and Luckkky are dating the same woman?

Awkwaaaarrrrrrd.

 

LOL!...would not tap.


Anyways, it's not everyday I read every post in a thread. Freaking hilarious.

 

Good god, is this what the younger generation is reduced to?

Come on people, you don't win hearts by being Mr nice guy....gotta be a little dangerous, have some spice.

Sounds to me like you have entered the Friends zone....

BLECK !

DD