Nice work, fellas. I've never done that via text. I used AIM/MySpace/Xanga to attempt to get some, but that was a long while ago obviously. But I was pretty bad at playing smooth back then (and still now, tbh - but that's ok I'm engaged now!) After receiving a pic of a backside when I was ~17 I nearly booked a flight to Nebraska. Through all this I found out first hand just how deceivingly skinny someone can appear when taking photos of themselves. That was what caused me to put an end to finding hookups on the internet. Being a smartass in person eventually proved to be the easiest way for me to get a woman. But again, nice work. And thanks for sharing.
Eh, i doubt she's as hot as you make her out to be. I'm a very good looking hispanic guy and i never get responses from the dime white girls. Though every girl i've banged were white girls, they weren't the 8-10 ranges.
I'm fat now but it doesn't mean i use my up to date pics haha...i never really use pof and okcupid anymore. The one time months back, i used it bc i was out of town and told her i hadn't been on in years and they were old pics. She's about a 7. Banged her once the first night i took her out after meeting her online that morning. Came back to Houston and she still texts me every day and even told me shes in love with me. Me being hispanic and loving white girls. The dimes are those all american white girls who sadly are also those church going country music girls as well. They hardly ever go outside of their race. They go for the tall successful white dude, or just really good looking white guys. So i have a feeling dudewahs 10 is more of a 7 to me(not saying there aren't dime whites girls banging non white guys online, but i have my doubts). Plus i'm extremely picky on my rating scale, doesn't mean i don't go hogging for 1's, just that i leave the 8-10 scale open for very, very gorgeous girls. For example, Jessica Alba. 8-8.5 range. Shes very hot, but you can see many girls in her hotness range at nice clubs and lounges.
I'd say this girl I'm okc'ing is a solid 7 when made up. Of course, I've yet to actually meet her but that doesn't look too far down the road so I'll keep everyone updated lol The girl (we'll call her...Bancy) I met before her earlier this month on the other hand is someone I could easily fall for if I allowed myself to. She actually winded up looking better in person than her profile. And just like Tamekka, she seemed like a tough cookie to crack but I just kept sending goofy sexual **** until a couple days later she responded with nothing but her number. Hit her up and talked about meeting the few days after.. So I meet at her place, had to fake the whole "old friends" w her roommates. Soon as I walk in she has a huge blunt rolled up and ready for sparkage. I'm already impressed. We meet at Upper Deck where her coworkers gf worked as bartender for her first day. Got hooked the **** up with drinks. Her other coworker talked us into going to Hanger who knew the bar tender there. Got hooked the **** up with drinks. By closing time I was hammered and only spent $8. Already great night. We go back to her place (which I dont remember much of) and around 3 she mentions her friends house she was house sitting at and asked if I wanted to chill over there. Why not? this ****ing place wound up being a mansion in West lake. HUGE. Heated kitchen floors, infinite pool and hot tub, huge theater room. She then brings out a pack of white owl pre rolled blunts. Leads me to the backyard where she strips her clothes off nude in one montion. Hops in and sparks up. I follow, smoke, fool around, then we go to the theater room where she had the HBO Girl's playing while taking down the 3rd blunt of the night. She offers to lead me to the room we were staying in for a back massage, shortly afterwards tells me to flip over and just starts going to work on me. You can imagine what came next... Spoiler Her On top of all of that, her personality just rocked my world. I really couldn't have asked for a better first date period much less one off of some dating site lol. Ironically/oddly enough, she saw that night as her last night to go wild before settling down with some guy and trying to make it work.. Literally made it official with the boyfriend two days after the night we hung out. But I guess it works. We've become great friends since. this is the one pic I have from this story.. Just the awesome view from the morning after Spoiler
I've tried POF and OKCupid. Had absolutely no luck on POF, but OKC has definitely delivered. Many horny girls there and the quality of chicks isn't bad, compared to pof where they are all whales.
And while the rich get richer over at OKC, the whales get whale'ier at POF. Like I've mentioned.. I've trolled these sites for years and never actually felt compelled to take a stab at any fembot until re-reviewing OKC this year. Now the drop in quality when comparing the two is embarrassing. I'll even come across very attractive girls on OKC that I personally know. Chicks I personally know could get laid at the drop of any empty condom wrapper. I think it's just another wave and momentum change as the world grows custom to this internet age.
What the hell do you online experts use as the opener to get a positive response and get the ball rolling?
Look at their interests and try to find one you share and then comment on that is usually a good start. The more you pay attention to what they wrote in their profile and ask questions about them, the better your chances of getting a reply, compared to just writing a general one sentence email that could be sent to anyone. Having a completely filled out and detailed profile of your own with multiple pictures also helps, where if you have almost everything blank or bare minimum with no interests or anything it will be tougher. Of course there is no technique that is going to guarantee a response from every person.
Bingo.. Here's the messages used to snatch up Tamekka Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler aaaand how we exchanged digits Spoiler I'd say.. Respond interactively, keep it about her - the more interest, the more they'll start asking the questions about you.. Try to find a solid common interest.. Find the common interest where most wouldn't.. ie: if an extremely hot chick says she's obsessed with football and dragonball z, out of the 99 dudes asking her her favorite team, you asking her her favorite out of the frieza, cell and majin buu sagas will probably stand out much more... If you're naturally funny, that's a huge edge... don't take yourself or the site your on too seriously... and most importantly... f^ck b^tches, get money.
Do you guys find online dating easier to hook up with a chick than say meeting them up at a bar,club, or workplace etc.? Only advantage I can think of is breaking the ice but you'd still have to deliver once meeting them up in person. If there was a time you would truly be skeptical about online hookups and how a chick looks whatnot, it would be in the late 90's early 00's when studio pics was the big hit. All the extra lighting hid all of there craters or zits and when you met them up it was full of surprises.
Depends on what you are looking for really. If you are looking for something that has the potential to get more serious you can at least try to find some common interests, and avoid things that will be automatic turn offs like one of you smoking when the other can't stand some one who smokes for example. If you just want a fling then it's still useful to know their interests before you talk to them, and some people find it easier to email a hot girl than to approach them in public. If you are worried that they won't look like their picture then try to Skype or facetime with them. Most girls are going to have one or the other available and they are probably going to have the same concern about whether you look like your picture. If you can't video chat though, worst case scenario you have one bad date. Just schedule something casual like going to eat, or grab a drink, and if it goes well ask them if they want to do something after that, and if not then cut your losses and call it a night. After you meet in person for the first time, the rest of the relationship is no different than if you had met any where else.
Thanks morpheus. Boy has the game changed, you guys could literally rack it up quick, go hitler and conquer the world before settling down. Screw the whole right time right place thing, just hit it up on .com. Fun! See the only downside i can think of with this is some chicks want us to listen to there story. If you chat too much they might be expecting you to remeber and you may confuse it with another chick you're messin with. I guess a little memo next to each name number for reference would work. Oh well, Too late for me now but appreciate it man .
semi necro bump. Any luck fellas? OKC seems to be getting hot as well as bang with friends has gotten kinda popular, but I dont want to mention it on fb for fear family will think I am some sex addict.
Never heard bang with friends and then i did it and was shocked to see these girls pop up and realized it just shows every girl on my facebook. I thought it was only gonna show girls on bang with friends. Weak. Im not gonna go into creeper status with a friend if shes not on BWF and it ends up being an email saying "Join bang with friends to see if you would bang this anonymous friend!"
just uninstall. Also, it doesnt message anyone unless both parties have mutual feelings. So if someone doesnt have bang with friends, they'd never know. If they do have bang with friends, and they dont want to bang you, but you want to bang them, they would never know.
