Funny you should mention digging holes....cuz you have a doozy of a hole to get out of now. I can deny that I "dug that hole" because I don't sit around all day eating twinkies and government cheese, which is obviously what you think anyone that is overweight or "obese" does. I have been the "big kid" since I was born: brothers and sisters--thin, mother--thin, Dad--big. Naturally, I was a better than average offensive lineman from pee-wee through high-school with my size. I can eat the same amount of food as you and I will be the one that puts on the weight, I have NEVER had a speedy metabolism and I'm paying for it now. Don't get me wrong, a slow metabolism is great when you are a full time football player, I can build bulk muscle mass fairly easy. I have fought my weight all my life, and it's not from being lazy and choosing to be a fat-azz So yes, you did hit a nerve, a$$hole