I've seen women at my work come up to me and start asking me something, while they are wearing a white see-thru shirt with their nipples sticking out like pocket knives. I know they know that their boobs are screaming to get out. Also, I don't know if women do this on purpose or not but bending down in front of my face and just letting the cleavage hang while everything inside their shirt can be seen.... I think some women just like the attention.
Yes that's part of the appeal but then again women don't have Adam's apples and we don't see women judging guys sexually by the size of their Adam's apples or women having to cover up their Adam's Appleless necks to not excite guys. In some cultures women's breast aren't a big deal and the norm is for women to walk around without tops. For instance in traditional Balinese culture boobs weren't considered a big deal and women went topless. The inner thighs were considered sexually explicit so they wore sarongs and skirts. Westerners thought Balinese were sexual libertines for showing their breasts while the Balinese thought Western women who wore bikini bottoms were tramps.
yes. thank you. how do you deal when they do this to you? whats the right response? are we supposed to compliment them, thank them, pretend we didnt see anything? should we make a joke or something? should we walk up to them with a side stiffy? whats considered polite? i usually just look and smile at it, and they'd smile back when we regain eye contact. which means they're not at all offended, and either they might have planned for it to happen, or they dont really care if the guy doesnt do anything completely leacherous.
I guess I'd need more info to answer. Are we talking just any schmo off the street asking me? If so, I'd have to say no. If I was around people I knew well and the occassion came up--then yeah I'd be down ) if I had enough to drink...haha). droxford.....my husband is just like you about the legs. He hates that I don't wear miniskirts more often. I think style has alot to do with less women wearing them. Minis just aren't really in right now unless you are under 20 years old. I personally feel sexier in a knee length a line skirt and heels than I would in a mini and heels. I don't know why?????
Yes, but that's precisely the fun part that's missing. A perfect example of my point. Well, if you're middle-aged and wear a knee-length skirt with heels... hell, at least you're wearing a skirt and heels. It could be tight and tailored or even pleated and bouncy and it could stilll look nice if it was knee-length. Or maybe you could try wearing some that are just a 2-3 inches above the knee. What's strange is, displaying and enhancing a their legs is a great way for women to be attractive, fun, professional, casual, and sexy at the same time, yet they choose not to. Ho well... I do hope that the skirts/legs come back in style (in my lifetime).
That's pretty much considered knee length to me. That's about where I wear mine. When I say knee length...I don't mean literally to the knee.
And for the record, regarding my Amen to Droxford's post. It's "skirts in general", not just mini-skirts. Short, long, knee-length. They're all good. Just wear them, please! Fatty, I second that request..
"I'm Cosmo Kramer, the Ass Man" For real, not to diverge, but I love a woman with a great ass and equally great legs...I look at that first...I'm my experience, a woman is either comfortable with her body and sexuality, thus not afraid to walk around nude, or not, but more times than not...
Man, I am all for women doing crazy things to look attractive, but it is hilarious that we won't do jack squat to look attractive as men. Guys expect to be fat asses with beer guts and absolutely no sense of style and women to dress like they walked off the pages of a fashion magazine all the while not caring that we look like Homer Simpson. Frankly, if we had to do as much as women do to look attractive or if women simply raised their standards a little, the vast majority of us would go dateless for a long freakin' time. And, we won't even go into whether or not size matters because if women set the same standards for penis size as many men seem to set for breast size...there would either be a lot of men not having sex or a ****load of money poored into the penile enlargement business.
Well, it's easier for a woman to make herself attractive than it is for men. Women have a much greater variety of styles for clothing, hair, shoes, makeup etc... For a woman who has a decent body (not a supermodel, but not overweight either)... she could be sexy just by putting on a red tank dress and high heels. Men will fall all over it. It's not that easy for a guy. There's no outfit that a guy can put on that women will fall all over. And as far as the "size matters" issue.... (I'm not sure why you mention it)... there's an easy answer to that one: Size matters to some women and not others. And for the women that it matter for, some like 'em big, and some don't. It's not possible to say "size matters" for all women. Different women have different preferences.
I think you totally missed my point here, drox. The point is that men, in general, are visually stimulated. It is how we operate. As a result, women, assuming they want to attract guys who are heavily influenced by looks, have to do a lot of things to make themselves look good. There have been times on this board when really attractive women's photos have been posted only to have guys on here who would probably have ZERO shot with said woman say, "She's not that hot." The point being that we set high standards for women but then we expect them to NOT set high standards for us. If women were as visually motivated as men are, we would have to do just as much work as they do and there is a lot of work involved for them. Well, I mention it (and again you missed the point) because it equates. Guys have very specific standards for women - big breasts being one of them for some men. The percentage of men who prefer women with larger breasts is fairly high. If that SAME percentage of women demanded larger penis size, men would have to make some changes or they'd have to settle. The point being that we ask women for an awful lot but we don't seem to think we should have to do that much in return and then we b**** like crazy when they nag us to do things for them. I just find that funny.
I don't know what y'all are talking about. I can look like a "10" if I put certain outfits on. A stripy shirt with a sports jacket does just fine with da ladies. Then you see me the next day, reeking of alcohol, hair all disheveled and still wearing the outfit from last night.... Not a pretty picture. I can go from a "10" to a "3" in no time flat.
Jeff, in general you make valid points. I can only speak for myself...so I will... , but I am not a general Homer slob. I feel I am rather presentible in my attire. I am not metrosexual by any means, but I dress rather well and professional. And I guess in turn I like to see women dress in a similar presentible fashion. (Read: no butt crack showing hip huggers with flarred legs and tanktop shirts that are 3 sizes too small.). Maybe for teenagers these days I suppose that's fine, but I see this stuff in the professional workplace. Ridiculous.
Yeah I ask the same thing! because in my school I have women friends that do exactly the same thing, and sometimes they stayed a lot of time bending down! I just pretend that nothing happen. but I dont know if they know that im seeing or what?
