You gotta have hand! A relationship is nothin without hand! Anyways, bout your situation VOR, that's awesome - something all guys think about.
ah.. methinks that explains everything...Billy Joel is waaay down on the list of artists I listen to.
Don't over analyze everything...Just be you... It's like boomerang...Now you have the great personality... Just hit it until she quits it...
I date so out of my league it's not funny. Have to endure a lot of abuse, but what the heck. You only live once. Hopefully she won't realize what a dork I am.
Are we bitter about something? Or am I totally off base? She more than likely likes you for you. Not all girls are terrible, superficial, men-hating b!tches. Just relax and enjoy it.
personality sense of humour personality you make you feel good conversation personality comfortability Intelligence your love of Cut Tino personality you make her happy did i mention personality Do any of these things have anything to do with your height, weight, girth, lack of hair, and her level of publicly perceived attractiveness. VOR there is so much more to being attracted to someone than societies view of what is good-looking. And who cares about who's in control, relationships are like the two of you hopping in the raft and going down the river, sometimes the rapids can be rough, sometimes your surroundings are brethtaking, sometimes you lose the paddle, sometimes it's relaxing, sometimes it's exciting and but most of time it's what make of it, so enjoy yourself and stop worrying Mate.
HEY why do ya have to bring that up?? ok ok I kid this is all very interesting stuff from all of you. and Princess, your right Smegg is one of the best. I get a kick out of all the people telling me to be myself. I always am! but then again this is the internet and I am horrible at expressing myself in text. I also get a kick out of those who bring up seinfield and such. Sure I am a NYer but I am the furthest thing from a George Costanza in the world. and if anything on that show ever relates to any of your or my relationships we all need some serious help. Truth is I dont know why I thought of it, I dont know why I posted here. I guess every super hot shick I have dated before looked like she belonged with me. people said "man that guy has it all" but now Its more of a "what does she see in him" mind you my friends are still in the "man that guy has it all" catagory because they know and like me, but the stranger, the jealous man, they now hate me. Now I noticed it, so now it is archived here on the internet. I would say manbe another thing is that back at 21 every girl has an awsome body and my jelous peers would not be so distracted. but aproaching 30 they see less and less women that can turn heads like a 21 year old. So I think age is a factor, and I am "that guy" last night we saw Finding Nemo. that movie is AWSOME I freekin loved it and I actually like Ellen now I appreciated the comments they were really funny to me, and a nice break from work. PEACE
sounds like we should meet at the Seinfield dinner in NY and i can find out for myself if you are George or not VOR - send me an email sometime so we can make sure we don't miss each other.
yeah i know, not for me when i have to book international airfares, but just for reference and so i have the right email addy, you don't email me anymore petal
Ok folks, Since I posted about the begining I better post about the end right?? well, yes, she is still hot, and no she is not walking with me at the beach anymore. god its amazing the personal convictions and moral demands that we will ignore for a 105 pound C cup with a pretty face. A close friend of mine was killed in a car accident last tuesday morning. I called her because I had to for work reasons that morning. I also called her for personal reasons. I had to talk to someone, i had to share my grief with a person whom cared about me, or at least was compassionate. I called crying, mind you 5 weeks into our relationship, and told her I could not make it to dinner that night as we had planned because my friend was killed in a car accident. she knew who this friend was, she knew he was a friend, a co worker, and a teamate on my paintball team. her responce and I quote " oh, ... thats ok, i made plans to gop to dinner with my sister instead." so i am shocked and well thought what she didnt notice my emotions, a mere 1.5 hours after i found out. and she noticed, but asked not if I was ok, not if I needed to see her, or not see her, or offer any condolances, or any support, she askewd about the watch she left next to my bed the weekend before. I eventually mailed her the watch and have only spoke to her once, and just about the watch. she finally asked me if I was ok on friday of last week, 4 days later. and it was way too little way too late. Incedently her walls, the ones she put up, and her apparent selfishness before that moment made me go out on sunday to see a friend, and I hit it off with my friends sister, so I guess all is not lost, but one very hot chick is. sadly i would normally just string her along for the sex, but she didnt really take care of business in that department. Its a shame. So hot she didnt thingk she had to "work" in the bedroom. well the new girl makes me happy and truelyb cares from what I have seen so far. we will see. Smegg, I need those dates for october. I am flying to California for family stuff at some point in OCT, so gimme those dates and I will check my tickets (grandparents 50th in San fran) 24th ish? PEACE
Well, it sounds like she wasn't worth being with to begin with. I hope it works out for you and your new girl! Hang in there, buddy.
VOR, my condolances on your loss nice work making that decision on the blow up doll hotty, funny hoe some trauma in your life can sort out a relationship quick smart. happiness is the key, good luck just finalising flights in the next hour or so and will email you shortly, all i have is the yahoo address, if that is not the right one send me an email thru the board. Smeg
Girl has to work in the bedroom. Can't stand the cold fish. Good move, VOR. Sorry about the friend. That really sux. It's really ***ty you had no-one to talk to. I know that feeling. Sux. I hope you can now.
VOR -- I would think twice about messing around with your friend's sister. While I don't know the complete details of your situation, I do know first hand that fooling around with the sister of a friend is usually not a good idea and can lead to feelings of resentment.
