It amuses me that you want to make this something personal with me. That is so far from the truth, though you of course can't tell that with me behind my computer and you behind yours. But the notion to try to make this personal seems pretty interesting to me. The psychologist in me would like to begin talking about transference and reaction formation and all that stuff. In any case, if I found someone's wallet loaded with cash sitting in the middle of the street, I would never in a million years take the money. I guarantee you I'd call the person and return the wallet intact and whole. That doesn't mean that I intend to fill my wallet full of cash and leave it in the middle of the street and assume everybody else will act with the same restraint, and I won't be upset or confused if people don't live up to the standards to which I hold myself.
BTW, da_juice, it is incredibly cowardly to post snide comments via rep. And you are clearly suffering from cognitive defects if you can't understand the qualitative difference between the two situations.
http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local...gy_in_sex_harass_flap_says_cant.html?r=sports She said it's not the first time she has been subjected to such reprehensible behavior from professional athletes, having worked in sports journalism for eight years. "But never anything so ... grotesque," she said. ----- We certainly don't want any kind of allegations like this, or anything like this to happen," he said. "I apologized to her - if anything happened, what happened, kind of an open apology."
What the hell is the point of showing your ass off with tight jeans if you don't want people commenting on how nice your ass is? This is like the chick that wears a top that shows some cleavage and she keeps pulling her shirt up so no one sees.
Cool I think courtship might can work better if women did most all the initiation and men "waited their turn" in a sense. Like in some matriarchies where women chose their partners. The whole men having to "read" women thing just makes men boost up their ego overcompensating for constant rejection. Women seem to like it where men set themselves up for failure with their cockiness and arrogance so women can sit back and judge and slander men's character, without the women themselves getting their "hands dirty". I agree women do want attention or they wouldnt dress to draw attention. I try not to judge women by their way of dress too much. I just chalk it up to "dimorphism". If showing leg is what women want to do to look feminine, have at it. Its not about acting too "independent" I dont think. Its about women trying to get a desired outcome by managing their looks, but not managing men's REACTIONS. I find it kinda hollow that women overall are just in shock that men have impulsive reactions to certain stimuli. If (American) women don't like cavemanish behavior so much, they wouldnt go for all the bad boys that act like cavemen. Ines Sainz found them all to be jackasses, but 97% of those jackasses ALREADY has near-Ines Sainz quality girlfriends. (In this America here, these feminists won't let you forget them even with your best effort to ignore them )
Agree of course. But the more we're hearing about these complaints of men's behavior, the LESS MODEST women's style of dress is, and its even more risque and skimpier each passing year. How does that work? Men aren't pressuring women to wear girdles and any of that stuff anymore. I dont think men are pushing the "Hollywood Image", contrary to how it might appear. Do men sit around planning, WANTING women to have multicolored blue streaked hair? Where does this come from, who decides all this crap? You'd just think a byproduct of all the morality would be more imagery of prudery. But nope, women worship Angelina Jolie more than men do. Anyway its not like she's filing a lawsuit. She just put up an "OMG HOW DISGUSTING!" on Twitter about it all. And in fact they just flashed a news story preview of this on TV, showing this Ines woman's rear end in jeans AGAIN.
I'm sorry but I didn't hear a word she said, too busy looking at her cleavage, which her low cut blouse was showing... <object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/QZ18XRhCpdE?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/QZ18XRhCpdE?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>
She is full of it, she needs to dress as a professional to be treated as one. The female reporters brought up about her wearing one size smaller pants that fit her body the main cause of distraction to the players. She will not change her dress code, I said black ball her from any NFL interviews until she puts her effort and start dressing herself as a professional.
No, she's milking it for all it's worth. If it was no big deal to her, she wouldn't be doing any television appearances to talk about it. Those two things contradict themselves.
yeah.......she wasnt harassed, didnt think it was sexual, has been doing this for almost a decade and it's just stronger than usual....then why keep talking about it? It's pretty obvious not every female reporter dresses like that.
Ok I'm sorry, but this doesn't consititue sluttyness or whorish clothing IMHO...I don't know for sure, but I'm assuming she always dresses casual when she's out and about...She works for a Spanish station, so maybe its ok to dress sexy, which means ratings...is it tight, hell f'n yeah, but c'mon, this doesn't mean she deserves the bull***** she got...again, I'm for cat calling hot chicks, but to me, that's girls wearing short sexy dresses or short shorts out at a club/bar/beach, etc...not someone in jeans working... Someone put it right saying if this was a corporate setting, this wouldn't be tolerated...how is this any different...if you want her, go ask for her number...Again, she shouldn't be penalized/harrassed for having a hot body...
honestly..what did she think was going to happen walking into a locker room full of horny men dressing like that? this reminds me of that thread about the chick taking crazy pictures in the middle of times square.
Maybe if they stopped trying to holla' at a reporter during practice they would hold on to the football and learn how to look for the first down marker. ****ing Losers. :grin:
