Crazy I would even say this but @JMAD21 - I'm kind of in the same boat right now! Don't wanna hijack this thread. I'm probably a completely diff person from you but I have no game when it comes actually approaching a girl that I LIKE. I want this girl & I have no idea what I'm doing at this moment. I'm probably more of a dirtbag with 95% of the girls I know and that's basically how it's worked for me. Say what I want, etc. Girls I know in that scene were just like that. To be continued.........
I think most of us have been really awkward toward the girls that we really like or that we have a crush on. The key is do not view them as goddesses but common Muggles. And get hold of your emotions, do not let let them control you. Do not be a slave to them. Then get your head in the Game.
I'm doing the opposite and I don't even know why! SPRUNG on something I really want & all game is lost. I am basically Corey Brewer / Dekker when it comes to this. I'm 31, no kids / wife. I have diff needs now.
Next time you see her, tell her that you really like her, and would love to get her in the sack. Don't say a single word, wait for her response. At the very least, she will know you mean business. Just do it, friend.
Just go up and ask her out, the worst that can happen is she says no and you haven't lost a dam thing
This chick man... She shows up to the game, comes right over to me to talk. After the game I'm looking for her so I can take my shot... Find out she left early!
Should've gone with my suggestions and the quaaludes. She'd be with you now if you followed my advice.
Like I said before, just call her. Tell her you missed her at the game but you want to take her out (drinks, dinner, movie, whatever). Give her a couple options of when you're free and ask which one works for her. Stop waiting for the perfect opportunity.
I wasn't waiting necessarily, just planned on talking to her before she left. I'll probably just go see her at the school on Monday. (No school tomorrow).
Bruh it sounds like you keep trying to put it off. Why wait til Monday??? This weekend is a perfect opportunity to take her out! Do something this weekend, have a good time, then you already have something built in next weekend (Cinco de Mayo) where she'll get drunk, resulting in you most likely getting your pee pee wet. Just CALL HER!
Aren't you already on the clock? Can't keep waiting man. At least see if she wants to grab coffee/lunch tomorrow. Then you can ask her out in person if you must do it in person. Waiting til Monday will be a mistake. She might meet some dude (or get back with her ex) this weekend, then you lost your opportunity.
She "comes right over to me to talk"?? WTF ARE YOU WAITING FOR!!!! Then you complain that she left early? CARPE DIEM!!!
You are no match for her.... Elite toying skills, toying with you, man! Lol If you get together somehow, her show continues...... first things first though
You'll have excuse after excuse until one day you'll see this girl in the arms of another guy and at that point ask yourself how important was "playing a basketball game"? If you see how awesome this girl is other guy's will see it as well. The clock is ticking on your opportunity....
