This can't be emphasized enough. Life is too short to waste it agonizing over love interests. If it's meant to be, then it will happen, just have fun in the meantime. She sounds like a b**** anyway.
Have you seen that Starburst commercial where a dude makes a sculpture of a chick's head using Starbursts? He shows her this hideous thing and then starts making out with and eating the sculpture right infront of her. Think of that the next time you want to say kick ass to a girl.
I heard that so many times that it feels like a dagger in my heart. Man, I'm happy I'm not single anymore. Even if my golf game has suffered.
The key to getting women is to not say mushy stuff until she does. Girls are the ones that are supposed to be emotional, and when a guy shows it first, it creeps them out.
maybe it wasnt that he was too aggressive, but instead she perceived his comments, "youre a kick ass girl", to mean that he sees her as a person thats great to hang out with rather than someone who could be a possible love interest. maybe shes confused by how you see her
This is the fault of instant messaging. A whole generation of people are using chat language in real life. It's a damn shame. Thank God you didn't say she was "teh awesome" to her.
Chill, take a step back and let her make the next move. You screwed the pooch on this one, so just relax and if she calls great and if not move on and learn from this. If you get into a real bind, pick up a copy of the Houston Press and look on the back page for a "Massage" and give em a try.
hold up, you're screwing up this episode, it should go something like this. Call #3 "Hi, I'm just calling to say I'm sorry for calling you a kick ass girl, even tho you are. ok. gotta go." Call #4" Hi again, I'm just calling to see if you got my message with the apology. You know the one about telling you you're a kick ass girl. It's not that you are kick ass. Just more kick ass than my ex. My service went down. Not sure if you got it. Anyway.." beep. Call #5 "Hi, just calling to finish my last message. I broke up with my last girlfirend cause she didn't kick ass. So I just wanted to clear that up. You kick ass only slightly more than she does. But you are not so kick ass that...." beep Call #6 "John, I think I ****ed up with this girl. What do I do. I've left her 7 messages already." "Ok. Calm down. I've been down this road before. We are going to have to break in and claer the voice mail. What's her address." "Hey, what are you doing in my apartment?" "I"m ummm." "Get the **** out of here before I kick your ass out." "You'd do that." "Get the **** out." Call #7 "So, do you want to get back together?"
Thanks guys, this is much apprcieated advice. I believe I will lay low for a while, I got two tickets to a Rockets game coming up, in the party boxes , and I will probably ask her to go. She is a big Rockets fan too, which is a huge plus you know? Truly, I have dated tons of girls, and this one by far is the most fun and interesting one I have met in a verrrrrrrrrrrrry long time. So, as you guys said, if it is meant to be then it will be, if not, life goes on. THANKS AGAIN ROCKETS FANS! I love the BBS!
For a minute, there, I thought I saw that she had huge... you know... brains, yeah... I hear wedding bells somewhere... ROCKETS FAN, eh?
She actually does have huge brains, and huge....ah well you get the idea. She is getting a degree in econometrics, which means that she is no dummy!
Ahh, the power of LOVe... when you meet that perfect woman with huge BRAINS... and she's a ROCKETS FAN... LOVE...
