Well in conclusion, she said I wouldn't know if she was playing games with me, when I asked her if she was. She said she was that damn good. She said her ex-bf is at her beckoning call, he is still that hung up on her. She is that damn good. When I told her that her family had not right to judge me or anyone for that matter, that no one will ever be like her ex; she said I was wrong for saying that. She said she never said anything bad about my family, of course, my family was super nice too her. I told her she was stuck up on her self. After a while she started crying saying how could I say things like I was saying. I bought her flowers twice, didn't bicker when she texted me like 200x in 4 days, treated her with respect, basically a super nice guy. Whatever she wanted me to say or do I did. Seriously, ever time I would talk to her, i would get sick to my stomach. I actually liked the chick and thought we could have something special. Oh well, guess I was wrong. I don't usually raise my voice, but it happened. I feel bad, but I just couldn't take it anymore. Wow.
I saw the word "shallow" in your original post. I think that would describe her very well, based on what I've read.
Yes, she even admitted it. She told me I couldn't blame her for it, it was the way she was raised. She said she needed time to get past that.
Sounds like she is a player or at least a prima donna. She has her ex like a string wrapped around her finger and wants/expects the same from you. Boink her as many times as you can then dump her when her crap gets to be too much. Post pictures as well
You should call her and tell her your bringing her more flowers. Then give her a beat down with the flowers.
Go have sex with five other women. Women like sex. Women don't fee sexual attraction for guys that kiss up to them. Demonstrate value, be interesting. Make the girl do something or pay some price for your attention. Establish connection and comfort. Escalate steadily with at least 2 venue changes. Deal with resistance, reasonably, by allowing it to pass. It only has to be registered, then, it can "just happen". Then return to the subject. After, comfort and goodbye. After you have enjoyed time with 5 other women, re-evaluate how you would like to share time with this one, and on what terms of attraction.
Look man. I am guessing that you aren't a piano, but she is going to play you like one. Hell...she'll play you like an orchestra. We have already established: 1. She has lied to you. 2. She still has something going on with the ex. My opinion...she's using you to make the ex very jealous. I personally think that she used the "good Christian girl" routine to hook a good guy who will trust her because of her religious belief. Don't be the fish on the other end. It will only end poorly.
Don't reply to her text's. Don't reply to her e-mails. Don't take her phone calls. Break off all contact with her. That chick is a nightmare. Get out. Get out while you still can. Go back to eHarmony.
You mean you don't understand why I keep telling this to people? Or do you mean that you don't understand why nobody ever listens?
LOL! I've learned that when a guy is nuts over a girl, his logic and rationale go out the window. A guy in that situation can hear what to do and know that it's the right thing to do, but his feelings won't let him do it. Long ago, I went through my own relationship torment and ended up learning things the hard way. That's why I try to be patient with people and keep repeating my advice. Maybe, somebody, someday will say, "Thanks, droxford. You were exactly right and you helped a lot." Maybe not. But I'll keep trying, nonetheless.
Here I am... apparently I have a lot more to do today than some of you. Because I didn't have time to comment on a relationship thread until the second page. (like I even have time now) Anyway, this chick is psycho. I don't know any logical explanation for her behavior... I'd say she just likes to string guys along, except the texting hundreds of times a day... whoa. In terms of all the stuff she's said about herself, you don't even know if it's true. I for one have my doubts. Sure you could get some hot freaky sex this way (some of the time, when she's in the mood), but that's about it. And, like Rocket104 said, she's full of it... do you even trust her enough to know for sure that she's only been with one guy? And she might turn into the obsessive type, given how she rushed into all this. You wouldn't want that. Some women just give our whole gender a bad name. Run, don't walk... there are girls out there who actually make sense and are willing to play fair, not to mention being on a more even keel...
This is sooooo true....but nothing wrong with some hot freaky sex, as long as you are in control... DD
