How about an all night video game guys only slumber party? If you want to get a little wild and out of control. Go out and buy a porno dvd flick from the porno store and watch it together. Charge it from your debit card so the wifey can see the name on the billing
Seriously, what is with the wussification of the American male. Lots of drinking and strippers are a must. It is his last day as a single man. No one has to **** the strippers, but a bachelor party is a rare rite of passage for American males. ATV's? Really? Come on... Lame.
Strippers are not neccessary. Just because you saw it in a movie doesn't make it cool. What you need to do is think what the stag would enjoy for his last day of freedom, if it's strippers, then go for it, if not, then don't. I've been on loads of stag do's and have done everything from canoeing, golf, casino, paintballing, go-karting. The people you are with should make the celebration what it is, not the girls.
Asian? A friend did the same thing when he got married...no strip clubs, just paintball... I guess its safe to say no one will be driving up to a strip club in an ATV
A little bit of searching found this place in the Catskills that has both paintball and ATV tours: http://www.stonetavernfarm.com/Stone_Tavern_Farm_Home_Page.html I have it on good authority that they're fine with strippers, too.
A bachelor party planned by hotballa? I'm surprised ya'll aren't going to a Faces of Death showing at the IMAX.
Weekend in the woods, good old fashioned hunting trip. Perhaps camping involved as well? Maybe make a trip out to a distant theme park and enjoy a day/night out. Go out to a big city Outside of NY and NJ and explore the city with your boys.... All of these are fairly safe from involving strippers