So is the April Fool's joke that she cheated on you or the fact that something called "library sciences" exists?
This is an amazing coincidence, but I'm sure that I saw you and her at that restaurant for lunch (I am a waiter there)! It caught my eye because I thought it very odd that you barely touched your chicken panini (they are so delicious!). I doubt this will make you feel any better, but the woman sitting with you (your wife, I guess) was totally checking out my co-worker Sergei's butt while you were gazing off in the distance dispondently. He thought about asking her for a hand job in the bathroom but you looked so sad that he decided against it. Chin up, dude!
i opened this really hoping it was one of those 'american hospitality' or 'why i'm divorced' style threads. as i read on, saw the word 'son' in there, i'm really hoping this is an april fools. i'm going to play it safe and ignore the date, and at the risk of being e-pranked, extend my condolences because the situation you described sounds awfully painful, and almost certainly traumatic. i really feel for you, your son, and even your wife as well. the only thing i can say, without knowing the dynamic of your family or relationship, is that in general, if someone or something you have a relationship with (like a friend, significant other, a company) doesn't want to give you, or continue giving you, whatever you are/were getting from them that makes it a mutual relationship worthwhile to you, then the sooner you get out of there the better. you can only swim upstream so long, and once you get out of the river, you'll notice that you've made no real progress and are often too tired to walk back. the best hard decisions i've ever made in life have been to distance myself from distracting or detrimental things: habits, friends, girlfriends, companies, organizations. etc. i don't have kids so i cannot offer any advice in that context. it sounds like an awful situation.
This thread reminds me of the ugly truth I found in this one: http://bbs.clutchfans.net/showthread.php?t=202597
I read you man, and I'm very, very sorry. Thats usually when it happens, after a woman gets a new job she feels under a lot of pressure to fit in and will resort to desperate measures. I've done group therapy and nearly all the women there said they had cheated at some point, some of them with much older men while they were happily married. WTF is wrong with women these days.
yea, if you are serious, i would confront her and explain to her how you feel about your son etc. If she doesnt care..then u know what to do.
Look Xerobull, I know what you're going through. Couple years back, a guy came to us much the same way you're coming to us now, saying the same thing that you're saying. He wanted to drop off the bbs. His mother was a widow, all crippled up. She was scrubbing floors. She had this pin in her hip. So he wanted to drop the bbs and get a job. Now these were poor people, these were hungry people with real problems. Understand what I'm saying? What happened to him you ask? I don't know. He quit. He was a YOF, we didn't need him.
If this is a joke, I hope she is actually shagging someone else. Otherwise, terrible. Can't believe someone would do that.
So sorry Xerobull. She actually came onto me first. And don't worry...it's just a fling. I'll also try to get her back home on time from now on.
