my girlfriend is pregnant....should i skip town....?

You 100% sure it's yours?

 

Kenny Chesney has a great song about it.

"There goes my life"

Love it, learn it, live it.

DD

 

Often, it is difficult to be a good father when you are married to a woman that you love and live with in harmonious wedded bliss.

The relationship of parents, whether happily married, unhappily divorced, strangers in the night, or just good friends plays a major role in either parent's individual parenting role; and ultimate success.

Based on the background you've given, being a good father to a child whose mother you do not like will make it pretty tough for you to make the best daddy top ten. No matter how hard you try.

Sometimes not being a father is better than being a reluctant father. There are plenty of men around who can more than adequately fill the role of good dad for someone else's unwanted child.

Hopefully, things will work out best for the child's sake.

 

Cage,

I feel bad that the matters are not as good as they could be. You can still have a blast with the kid.

If your ex doesn't turn into a psycho and gets married and mentions the adoption word for the new husband and allows you to see the kid anytime, it might be the best thing that ever happened to you.

Think about all the ball games you guys could share...

Good times.

 

too much info

 

Yep, she will be very sensitive for months to come, if you all cant get along it is best just to be apart right now. Just make sure she knows that you will be there for her if she needs anything. The deal is, the seeds are already planted, if your relationship consist of her walking all over you, then you are up **** creek. But if she knows who's wearing the big draws. Then you should be able to work at that thing together. Just try and not to upset her too much, you have to remember there is a baby done there and he/she feels what mommy feels...... Or you can get cool with her, and one night just start play fighting and wrestling her and ACCIDENTALLY give her a Roy Jones Body shot. That will solve all your problems... J/K...

 

All kids are poor - they come into this world without jack.

I liked Voodoopope's advice but what I cannot get over is his love for Voodoo

 

Its just a screen name that is never taken and I always had a soft spot for the french quarter and a curiosity of religous beliefs of all types.

 

I think it is a crime for the mentally r****ded to procreate. You should probably go get a vasectomy today, right now.

 

and she's pregnant

 

This is so sad.

 

LOL....ditto

i think we should rename the thread 'jizzload after jizzload"

 

If this ever becomes a Liftime Original movie...Nelly's "Over and over again" could be the soundtrack

 

FYI, Donovan was born yesterday. He weighed 11lbs 8oz.

 

You ever going to tell him you were thinking of skipping town?

Just noticed it was a differ poster.

 

mmm why reply to this thread about it? lol

 

Its not about being a man and accepting responsibility, it's about staying the **** out of jail or having warrants on your ass.

 

Mateo,

If you don't mind me asking but what is your relationship with cagey veteran? Is he a buddy of yours from high school?

 

Just because she's bringing your child into the world, doesn't mean you have to marry her. I understand why the two are synonymous, but it's not the only way. You can still be a good father, and a good friend to the mother, and still find the right woman for you. As a man, you should accept the responsibility and risk that came with having sex with your girlfriend, and help raise that child regardless of how things turn out between your girlfriend in the future. Don't be a loser.