My ex-girlfriend won't leave me alone, what do I do?

you should definitely ask and see if she's down with anal

problem>solved

 

Change your e-mail, and possibly even cell # if it continues to get worse. If you decide to call her, tell her you're going to call her mom about her suicidal threats, and then tell her you're going to file a retraining order if she keeps harassing you.

 

No need to change, just block it.....and tell her if she contacts you again you will forward everything to her mom....which I think you should do anyway.

DD

 

That works too. For some reason I keep thinking of 40 Year Old Virgin reading this thread though.

 

if youre not happy, your not happy....time to make a decision and stop prolonging your pain.....Is she worthit?

 

If she's willing to kill herself she's also willing to cut off your penis or slit your throat while you are sleeping. She needs serious help.

 

Take it from me, the best thing to do is not react at all.

I had a female stalker a couple of years ago who used a lot of people to try and get at me.

Every time I reacted, it was like pouring fuel on the fire.


If you get texts, emails, phone calls, you don't react at all. You don't reply, you hang up without uttering a word.

You also need to stress to you family and friends to do the same thing.


Eventually, even crazy people get bored, and your hope is that she will find a new target.

 

Just show her this video:

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Then she'll stop bothering you...

 

Ditto that - poor chow_yun, no matter how many times he refuses to acknowledge or address that situation, there are always going to be people on the board like me, moes, DHR, etc. that will remind him of his days with "vivi".

The only reason why I bring it up is I think it is funny that her name is the same as the nickname that my daughter uses for my mom (my mom's real name is Vicki).

 

You have to be VERY careful with people threatening to hurt/kill themselves. 9 times out of 10, it amounts to nothing. But the 10th time, it's more than a problem: it could mean the end of someone's life. Here's how you take steps to prevent her from harming herself AND end the relationship all in one easy step.

You call up her parents and ask to meet with them, face-to-face. At that meeting, you tell them that you have been dating their daughter, begging her to let them know the truth (show them any emails/texts you have to back up your claim) and that the daughter would not come clean. Then you tell them that you couldn't handle deceiving her parents, and broke it off and that she threatened to hurt herself. Again, show them any emails/texts you have to back up your claim. Tell them that you are concerned for her safety and that you want to help her parents in making sure she gets the help she needs. Mom and Dad now know to keep an eye on her, she gets mad at you for "going behind her back" or whatever, and you come out looking like the good guy. Plus, you did the right thing by both her and her parents.

In other words: TELL THEM THE TRUTH.

 

LMAO, its like Master P doing R&B

 

2nd'ed the anne hathaway

Do it in her pooper. Dump her ass.

Then dump her ass.

 

She is no good for you, she sounds just like my ex and guess what? After a month and a half of ignoring she pulled the 'now i understand how someone could kill themselves' line and I went back.. within two weeks she never changed and i was stuck in the same position thats frustrating to you. Im 23 and she's 24. Everything at my expense and she was never grateful, always disrespected me and cut me when i was down or tired.

tell her to move on please dont be like me.. No one wants to play the whole 'what if' everyone always wanted to give love a shot and im sure you care about her but trust me DO NOT GO BACK, dont make the same mistake as me and countless other guys and you will be writing stuff like this -->

Him:
sorry for wasting your time
Six long months on the telephone line
hours of asking if you were fine
and saying i was fine too

sorry but ive got to go
Our birth was quick but our death has been slow
there was so much i didnt know
and so much i never knew about you

and so we disconnect, the room grows quiet around us
its called the life effect, will it always surround us?

who made you happy last night?
i dont know his name, but i guess he would fight
as i fell, im still the one who said you had a light
a light that shone inside you

Her:
i found myself a decent man now
i love him because i can
the bravest that ive ever been
was when i ran away from 'Him'

Us:
and so we disconnect, the room grows quiet around us
its called the life effect, will it always surround us?
and so we disconnect, the room grows quiet around us
nothing left to protect, the end has finally found us

Him is Me:
the day is almost over, even though i cant stand you i never lied and i cared, im the best you'll ever get, you had your shots. its almost time for bed. so now youve finally lost me, you'll regret it but accept it, go rest your weary head....

 

I got it!!! Tell her you are gay because the relationship has really damaged you.



Tell her that it's gotten to the point that every woman you attempt to date reminds you of her. And that you can't stand it anymore.. And after your experiment with men you have found a side of you that has awakened.

 

Listen to this guy

 

^Don't forget to leave out texts referring to Anne Hathaway.

 

I sympathize with the OP, but this thread is Hiillllaarrriiioous.

How does a thread about a dysfunctional relationship turn into something about OJ, black gloves, duck tape, Anne Hathaway and all other horrid shiza?

I love ClutchFans

 

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