Man, that's rough. I honestly don't know anything about how the IVF process works. I know we decided back in 09 (when the stillborn happened) that if we didn't get pregnant by EOY 2010, we were going to look into it. And we found out we were pregnant literally the morning of 1/1/2011. So funny how that works. Sometimes when you stop checking calendars, ovulation schedules and all that nonsense, it just happens. "Trying to get pregnant" will ruin something that's supposed to be REALLY FUN if you let it. Try not to let that happen. Easier said than done, as I'm sure you already know. Whatever you guys decide, I hope it works out for you. Just always remember to turn TOWARDS eachother instead of against eachother. No one knows what you've been through except your wife and visa versa. Don't be afraid to talk with eachother about it because really...who else are you going to talk to? Ironically, it can actually be harder on the husband than the wife in some ways. Everyone asks how your wife is doing but no one really asks how YOU are doing. Only person who ever asked me that was....my wife.
