Long Distance relationship

It's hard to make work. With distance, you guys will eventually drift apart. I've seen it work before, but most times, they don't workout. Just my opinion.

 

When you say long distance relationship, what do you mean? City, State, Country?

 

Don't listen to him man. Long distance relationships are hard work, but they can easily work if both people make a focused effort to stay connected. You have to communicate with each other, while at the same time maintaining a level of trust that you've probably never had to do before. And a little wowwowweewow over the phone never hurt either.

 

These are always the best type of relationships -- I believe they have a 97.5% success rate.

 

Yeah, that's a major component of the equation.

 

I guess you can't read. I said I've seen it work.

 

I still don't get it. Where are you going to be? And where is she going to be?

 

Tech and Houston? Tech and where? Lubbock/Houston isn't that bad. Heck, I'd be making at least a couple of weekenders a month, if it were me.

edit: just saw the above... that's long distance?? (where's the "roll-eyes" thingy, dammit!)

 

Yeah. You're leaving out some details that would help us help you. What's the distance from your place to her Aunt's place. Houston - Galveston, Houston- Dallas? If you don't want to name cities, you can give us some kind of example of distance.

 

I was going to write one of those blog thingies on this very topic. There is this saying in spanish about long distance relationships..amor de lejos amor de pend..
In other words, they rarely work and stay away from them.*


* I never listened and it always ended badly.

 

So it's not a long distance relationship. May I ask how old you guys are?

 

Ive done it plenty of times...its hard, but if you both have the same goal in mind, there is no reason why it would fail. Webcam is helpful. Visit each other as often as possible too.