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Long Distance Dating

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by VooDooPope, Apr 11, 2023.

  1. Buck Turgidson

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    You've got it figured out, if she can't at this point....?

    I'm not sure she'll ever trust you again, no matter what you say or do
     
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  2. VooDooPope

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    after a couple days of deep conversations, I think we're back to where we were before. We'll keep trying this long distance thing but she knows if she wants/needs more then we can part ways as friends. I've also reiterated that I'm not planting seeds or pursuing other relationships and that I haven't in the past nor do I have any intention to in the future. Time will tell if she's able to put the doubts aside and trust again but I've done all I can do with regards to being open and honest and asking the hard questions we all need to ask ourselves.

    Thanks for the input clutchfans!
     
  3. ima_drummer2k

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    Do you honestly foresee yourself still being with this person 5 years from now? If the answer is no, I would just break it off. Easy for me to say since I'm not emotionally involved, but this is how I approach life decisions in my own life. Where do you want to be 5 years from now instead of 5 days from now.
     
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    I think women are generally more emotionally and economically driven creatures.
     
  5. Buck Turgidson

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    I thought you were married with children?
     
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    I'm not emotionally involved with VooDooPope's girlfriend.

    That would be a whole 'nuther thread.
     
  7. Buck Turgidson

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    We haven't had an epic bbs thread like that in a long time...get on it
     
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    pics or gtfo
     
  9. VooDooPope

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    There's the Clutchfans I know and love.

    Not sure why you want a photo of me but here is a photo of me with Frank Black Francis of the Pixies at Waterloo Records in Austin way back when.

    Frank Black and Me.jpg
     
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