Everybody's been hurt before bro, weather the storm and you'll be good eventually. You will look back and laugh at it.
Sorry to hear that breh. Relationship problems are always tough, especially ones that are that long. Atleast you found out now instead of after it was too late (marriage). Move on, take it as a learning experience if you can and better yourself from it. Time heals all things. And your CF brehs will always be here for you!
hey man, keep your head up.. you're a good dude and any lady will be lucky to have you man.. you're better off without her and she did you a favor.. she'll come running back.. and when that day comes I hope you tell her to **** off!
Sorry man. Love hurts and I know this is the wrong time to ask but do you get your ring back if she cheats??
Thankfully, I've always had it with me. Just an update: It's been exactly two weeks since I saw/talked/heard from her. This is a good thing I guess. I'm just surprised how the hell a girl who I spent 4 years with and have known for 5 can just develop feelings for someone else and never look back. I miss her everyday, just can't believe how cold she can be/was/is. I'm still not even able to look at other women, while this wh0re is probably talking to so many guys on match, while getting the attention she craves at work. I still can't believe this happened to me. I can't believe it.
She can can develop feelings for someone else and talk to other men because she doesn't love you. She was done with you awhile ago. Don't get depressed about it, just keep that in mind every time you wonder if you will get back together or that you will never find someone as special as her. Rough reality, but true.. Don't be her biotch. Let her fukk her own life up.
Go buy some furniture at IKEA and pick up a new puppy. Changing things around the house was always good for me, and you can never go wrong with a puppy.
You grew apart but unfortunately you didn't see the signs until it was over. Us guys are clueless to this type of thing. Maybe it was an accumulation of too many bad table manners or cheap dates or awkward encounters with her parents or who knows? The point is that it can happen. I was married for 5 years and I have a son with my ex. I am happy that I am no longer married to her but I still have dreams that I am back with her. The only reason (I guess) that I dream this is because I know how much my son wishes I was with his mother. Now you talk about hard - try dealing with the fact that you get to see your child about 80 days a year and every time you have to give him back to your ex, he cries and says he doesn't want to leave....it sucks donkey balls.
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I'm glad I found this thread as I am also going through a very similar situation with my ex. Wasn't with her for 4 years but it sure felt like it. I fight the temptation every day to text/call her but I know that I have to move on because she certainly has. I've recently tried this new app called Tinder and while it's a good distraction, it seems like every girl I look at just doesn't compare. I've also tried doing what everyone in this thread has advised but at the end of the day, I can't help but feel like she was the one, the only girl for me. I guess you have to go through something bad to find something better (as cliche as it sounds). I hope things get better for you. Stay occupied and distracted with things that won't lead to you thinking about her.
You can't force someone else to feel a certain way about you. The best you might be able to do (if you're loaded) is go the De Niro marriage proposal route from Casino where he says he's ok with Stone not loving him and will always take care of her. That doesn't work out in the long run either. There's a lot of great single women out there, and in time, you can find happiness. <iframe width="560" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/GRP6XpQSheQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> <iframe width="420" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/_5IVuN1N6-Y" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
I feel for u! In june i was in love with a girl and it never really led to something so i was kind of sad for a while but with time u will feel better trust me!
Boy, you sound exactly like me a couple years ago. Don't worry, you'll eventually get over it. In the meantime, spend time with friends and family who don't remind you of her. Go to the gym a lot and get buff. Do everything it takes to get better for the one that is truly meant for you. She will see the changes you've made but that isn't the point, you aren't trying to impress her. You're trying to get ready for the REAL one. Use your anger as an advantage. Yes, the dreams will stop. The sad thoughts will stop. Don't let it overcome you. There are many ways you can fight it without hurting yourself. It starts with doing/ learning new things to make yourself better. The reason she broke up with you is she's a ho.... But guess what? That isn't the only reason. The other reason is she wants to see you SOAR. Take yourself to new levels. Go ahead, brother. You will thank her in the end when future you is married to a real woman, and when you have become Hercules. Good luck.
It happened, time to start dealing with it in a healthy way. It's not your fault, so don't get down on yourself. Enjoy the opportunity to meet a few new female faces. Eventually, things will be better for you and you'll be glad this happened before the two of you were married with kids, etc.
