Around age 7, I remember being in the bathroom at an after school day care. 3 boys started pissing in each others mouths. They said it tasted like lemonade and wanted me to join in. I smartly zipped up and left. That really freaked me out.
what does that have to do with cps? i think you're asking if the cops should get involved? that's a totally different issue. cps is going to investigate the kid's home, not the kid.
No he means if someone older, parent, family friend or whatever, forced him to do what was going on in the bathroom. That the child is abused and that is what prompted the action.
okay I understand. i just don't think this warrants a cps investigation unless the kid says it happened to him but maybe cps is the organization who has to initiate that process. i don't know.
Most people would rather have a very aggressive CPS vs. a very passive CPS. For every person who is wrongly investigated, tons are rightly investigated. What do the "perps" parents have to hide? Their stash of p*rn?
i'm going to take a page off pgabriel... Hayesfan, I'm going to give you some advice... Just because you experienced something.. doesn't mean it always happens.. Honestly.. "wow"?
I know, but it just seems like something everyone had experienced. I guess I thought most people would have been curious long before 11 so yeah it surprised me. (wow=surprise) Though, now I feel like I am the odd one.
This thread is extremely uncomfortable to read. I mean, after A-Train's play-by-play of the re-enactment, it was all downhill. Something about using words like "blowing" when talking about little boys just seems wrong to me. Then the whole pee-drinking incident...wow...just wow.
What can I say? I was a nerd. The only girl I got to see naked before I was 15 was some girl we know in elementary. And I wasn't attracted to her.
Hispanic? Seriously though, I think I started being a bit curious around age 10.. The thing was, that though I found the curious thoughts mentally stimulating.. I had no clue really to what I was being curious about.. or why i found it to be stimulating.. I was very imaginative as a child.. so I just took to it as something I was imagining.. so I never acted out anything or felt compelled to. The most I ever did from pre-k through 5th grade was coaxing a girl into playing hide 'n' seek with me, with us being the only hiders, and there being no seeker, just to kiss her on the lips (mouth closed) . She seemed to like it a little more than me for some reason.. all I remember thinking was that I wanted her to be my girlfriend. We stayed 'lip-locked' for a minute or two, until we were caught, and she immediately spun her head away from me to the person that caught us, started crying, "Don't tell my daddy!" And ran off.
does anyone else get the feeling that its the adults making a much bigger deal than this really is? I mean, kids are curious and i would assume they dont really know they are doing. Its the adults who are adding adult feelings and thoughts to the act. Unless one of the kids is the most mature 5 year old this side of the mississippi
Do we get to have a huge debate about heterosexual parents if it turns out the parents were/are straight?
A five year old simulating (or repeating) sex acts is a warning sign that the child was possibly abused. I work everyother weekend with families in crisis and if this happen at our center we are mandated to call CPS. Heck, if a five year old describes a sex act in detail we are mandated to report it. It's certainly a big enough warning that someone should check into it. The same with the bruises thing someone mentioned. If the bruises are on the back of the legs or back that would raise red flags and CPS needs to be called. Teachers are also mandated reporters --- if they don't report it they are liable and could (at the least) lose their jobs.
Speak for yourself. I'm sure not many boys blow each other when they're that young. Maybe with a girl but I've never heard of gay sex acts performed by 5 year old kids. WHERE THE HELL DO/DID YOU LIVE?
Note to self --- Go home and (have another) talk with my kids about what is right and what is wrong behavior for elementry school kids regarding private areas.
