While the concept is good, and represents the correct way of thinking in my mind as well, it just isn't that way. As a matter of fact, most would argue that it's just an impossibility to free your mind to the extent that a man wearing traditionally ladies attire (with the exception of kilts, and that's a whole different animal) or vice versa, is not distracting. If it wasn't, this Dale fellow would not be getting the media pub. he gets for doing so.