You know how there are some girls you want to bang and other girls you don't find attractive enough to bang? That's how she feels about you. I was on your side at first, but you're acting like a major p***y and it's too frustrating to feel sorry for you now. Why the hell does this girl have to want you right now? Date other girls. Things might change down the line, and if they don't so be it. You don't get every girl you want in life.
Why are you even asking for advice if you aren't going to take any? Forget it, just keep up the current state of this 'relationship'. At first I assumed this girl had to be somewhat attractive for you to act like such a simp, but the more you post, the more I believe this girl is at BEST a 4/10 and yet STILL way out of your league. Simp •A man that puts himself in a subservient/submissive position under women in hopes of winning them over, without the female bringing anything to the table. •A man that puts too much value on a female for no reason. •A man that prides himself with "Chivalry" in hopes of getting sexual gratification form women. •A square with no game other than “Rolling out the Red-Carpet” for every female.
I know that feel man. You are not gonna take any advice with ur emotional state Anyway because you don't want to hear any advice. Why don't u just say **** it and do whatever you feel is right and see what you end up with. A lot of guys goes thru this painful experience. I think you should too.
You're wasting your time. Instead of working on getting her to "love" you, work on yourself. Make yourself more attractive, work out, get money, make new friends, find a hobby YOU like, etc. When you got it happening, chicks will WANT to hook up. Forget this girl man. I know it's easier said than done. Gotta stop being such a b*tch. Wasting your time dude.
Why would you want someone who ISN'T attracted to you, dude?? That makes NO sense. You already know she's not feeling you.....yet, you still hold a torch for her?? Where's your ****ing pride??? At what point do you say, "You know what? She's missing out. If she's too blind to see what I have, then **** her." Go out, and find yourself someone who DOES want you back. What kind of p***y ass **** is this??
And later on she might want you. But don't do this for her, you got to do it for yourself. You're way too young now to be living your life for others. Unless you're Jesus or you spend years with someone, get married, and have kids together, then you're life should be about you. Getting caught up in a girl who doesn't want you sexually is just toxic to dwell on. You're acting like a loser now and imagine if some loser girl wouldn't accept no for an answer from you and kept pestering you. Grow up, get busy living, and re-asses later if she's still in your life. We're all joaning on you in here, but we're doing it because most of us want you to get better.
i'm gonna cut him some slack. 19 is still pretty young. and he probably thinks real life is like the movies where the romantic geek gets the girl in the end. life is learned through experience. he'll get it later.
This, like what the hell. Where did the attachment even come from, how close of friends can you be after 2 weeks. How much do you even know her.
Dude. You need to get laid. Holy ****. You are acting like a little b****. I'm sorry if I sound rude. I'm just a fellow 19-year old trying to help you out. I'm assuming you in college? Go to parties. Go meet girls. Go ****. Your obsession is not healthy for your mind or body. Get out of your funk, and go find some other girls. All of these other posters are saying the same damn thing for a reason. Your obsession is pathetic. You need to cut out all contact with her because of your obsession. Usually you can keep in contact with a girl that rejected you, but your obsession is just going to get in the way.
