After being through a rough relationship myself, I can empathize with you. If you don't atleast separate for a while, you are setting a dangerous precendent. She will walk all over you with the new shoes you just bought her. Put her in her place. Tell her there is no excuse for what she did and that you don't want to see her for a while. In that time alone, if life seems better and more simple... Dump her. But you need to make her suffer. She deserves it. If she acts dumb while you guys are separated... Dump her. My ex once threw a freakin coke at me when i was getting picked up by my friends to go see a movie. I should have dumped her there and then. A couple of questions though.. Does she have an anger problem? Does she demand a lot of things from you (paying for gas for instance)? Does she have a lot of friends or does she only want to spend time with you?
Heck, 95% of responses to every single relationship thread has been "dump her" "My girlfriend is the greatest woman ever! Last night when I went over her house, she had a steak cooked up for me! Oh man, it was so tender and juicy....Then we went to her bedroom...she must be reading that Kama Sutra stuff, because that was the best two hours of sex in my entire life!! I've never come three times before! After she realized I was tired, she told me to sit back and relax...That's when her two friends, who are underwear models, came in and they had a lesbian orgy fest for another hour and half...that she let me record on the new digital video camera that she got me for my birthday!!!" "dump her!!" "kick her to the curb!" "Only two hours of sex? It's your BIRTHDAY, man! dump her!"
She sounds like she is worthy of a dump the likes of which Andre the Giant would have after a combination Thai-Mexican buffet in Tijuana. Personally, I am against revenge unless it is really, REALLY good. For example, get back in her good graces and kiss a$$ until she agrees to make that p*rn movie y'all had talked about...parents freak out when they get copies of them in the mail. But then again, I don't go for revenge unless I am unbelieveably pi$$ed off.
She left him stranded. I don't care how serious they were, that is grounds for an immediate dumping right there by itself. There is a line, and then there is crossing the line, and then there is driving off while leaving you're significant other stranded.
Before we all tell him to dump her, could we at least wait till he explains the situation further? Sure, she seems to be a bit of a psycho but surely the fact that she came back shows she just had a "moment"? The question is whether she has them more often and whether they are more extreme. Due to what he has said I'm leaning towards this being true, but yet still there are so many other things to think about. How do they get on otherwise? How long have they been going out, etc?
Actually, I would argue the opposite. Most divorces happen because someone in the relationship is just willing to let a troubling episode like this go. It's only later after they are married that they discover they made a huge mistake and married a psycho. Hello divorce. Nip it in the bud and it never comes to that point. People should be more selective in choosing mates. BTW, yes...I'm still single.
Dude. You should pump your girl's gas, even if your in a fight. She also shouldn't have left you there. I would wonder where the relationship was going after this, however, I've known couples to do some crappy stuff to each other but stay toghether and have a happy time if it. Sounds like you were both jerks but she took it to the extreme.
Hell dude, you're lucky. My girlfriend of four years told me the other night that if we get married that I can only watch football every other weekend. It's too bad, really. We had some fun together...
I had this fine girlfriend that pulled some **** like that and I made the mistake of keeping her for another year. What a wasted year. Dump her. Do you want a girlfriend or an infant?
Whatever you do... If She brings you a batch of Brownies and a video tape... oh what the hell, eat the brownies.
tell her you want to take her to dinner go, sit down, order something then go to the bathroom and don't come back just leave then call her at the restaurant while she's still at the table and say "so long, sucker." okay, maybe it's best we just fantasize about doing that, but if you're really pissed, it's evil
So anyway, did you dump her yet? I bet not. Since you made this thread showing you must give a tiny **** I bet you stinkin care about her and wont dump her.
We've known each other for a long time. We were happy together but difficult sometime. We were getting serious about the future stuff recently. I don't even remember the detail of the dispute. From what I gether from her, she thought I wasn't caring enough the last couple of days. That morning, we were searching for a place on the net on my computer. We were quite urgent, and I thought I could get it done faster, she wouldn't let me. So I kind just grabbed the mouse. This set her off. She could show some attitude if she thought I wan't doing the thing the right way, by her standards at least. But nothing like this happened before.
