^^ Major, is that really a girlfriend, or some 'friend with benefits'...? The way you are willing to accept any little thing she does and how she has 'free will' to do anything while "also letting YOU do it", it almost seems to me like you don't really want to be with her... like there's NOTHING uniting you... just 'the S-E-X.' Is this right?
Actually, I was watching MANswers one night for no reason. They said that the Swedish were the most "promiscuous" of any nationality... Is there any truth to that? who knows. Like DaDa said, maybe the Swedish are just more open about it.
I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I knowingly whored my girlfriend out to some random dude. Just the thought of her being with someone else is sickening enough, without knowing that I gave the go-ahead on it.
I feel exactly the same way you do. My hangups are dishonesty, deception, and manipulation. I can get over just about anything else...and if I turn a tidy profit? Why not?
The ideas of what a "relationship" is varies from person to person. If someone doesn't mind their SO having some fun with others, so be it. I do know a couple of marriages where the wife is very 'social' and does alot of flirting. The husbands seem to be fine with it, but not sure I would be. We are talking about hugs, gropes, dirty talk, etc. The husbands are fine with it. I think with some of them it turns them on to see others wanting their wife. Other husbands just seem to not have a backbone to say anything about it and too scared for her to leave him if he did. As far as the question, I would put the price over $500k. I mean, that is alot of money. Not like she was a virgin when we got together, so go have your fun and bring that money home to daddy!!!! I say that now, but if I was married I am sure my opinion would change. It might drop down to $5k, lol.
The way I look at it - if she wants to do someones else.... Then it's her loss. You all should adopt this attitude aswell, keeps you sane.
"I don't want his PORK CHOP. I WANT HIS LIFE." <- name that movie, Lady_Di, I know you know it. I don't know why you're bringing in "FLIRTING" to the table. We're talking an entire NIGHT, here. You seem to be forgetting what the opening post asked: It's straight up SEX, a one-night session of no-holds barred. We're talking outfits, maybe tying your wife/SO up tying them down, toys, wax, whipped cream, whatever... no one said "flirting." In addition, the OP said "strange man" or "strange woman", and people would be bringing up "oh, it was my best friend and I was still with her... blah blah..." Get tha f outta here, with that *****. A stranger? Heck freakin' no. That's STD city right there.
In general, jealousy is the lamest of emotions. Nothing makes you feel more like a monkey. Someone sleeping with your lady?! RARRRRR!!! It definitely couldn't happen for the paltry sum of a million dollars. The poll should be skewed way way upwards. Giving people Lebron money is a much stronger temptation than a measly million right? I'd expect at least a shoe deal and a treasure chest full of gold up front..
