In need of a little advice on a bizarre relationship debacle...

here's the deal. The dude is a chump.

If he can't deal with heartache, we should take him out the pasture and waste him.

 

shes a he she.

actually, i think from what i read, that the original owner of the name decided that he was too good for cf, so he gave her the name. the original owner was smart enough to get out while he still had a life because he would never get off of it. and now, the current owner, cannot get off of it.


thank you.

 

Just ignore him. Or send him one text message saying it's over. I thought girl's were supposed to be the clingy ones.

 

Don't go near his place.

He really loves you. He only did it because he loves you.

 

Just call him, and speak to him, and see what is up.

If you want, I'll fly over there, and watch your back. I'm almost a licensed Ninja.

 

The correct, mature way is to tell him one last time that this will be the last you guys speak because he's making you uncomfortable and that thought of being romantic with him makes you a bit naseous.

The immature way, and my personal fave as of late, is to make him break up with you, or to totally become disgusted with you. Fine, agree to go hang out for coffee, and start telling him of how while shaving last night, you discovered some warts, and as you ran the razor over it, puss and blood started oozing out. If that doesn't turn him off, come back here, I've got plenty of ways to get your partner to Run Like Hell.

 

Defintely option 2, do it, with those kinds of stories this thread would have the potential for thread of the year!

 

When I first open this thread and read about guy troubles I thought maybe he was gay or something but it turned out to be a she so...

This part helped me out:
"I figured he'd move past it since he doesn't have much trouble with girls, but he's acting like a nutcase."

LOL..my fault

 

I think we had this discussion in a thread a few weeks back. I think she said it was a friend of hers username, then he left the boards and she wanted to join so she just used his or something like that.

 

Way to break his heart. Women are so ****ed up.

If you're gonna break some poor guy's heart (probably a really nice guy who is deeply in love with you), don't come on here and ask for advice.

Can't wait until you get dumped yourself and I hope it happens in the most painful way it can. Karma's a b****.

 

I guess I've really complicated things.

Maybe its best if we go our seperate ways. plenty of fish in the bbs sea.

well come to think of it...

akperez and meggo are spoken for, I ran off amfootball, Isabel is more drama than a junior high.

hmmmmm.

well **** it.

back to p*rn.

 

Here's the deal, finalsbound: men don't take hints. He won't get the hint from the fact that you don't return his calls. The way to end this is as follows: call him and say these exact words, "We're trough. We're not in a relationship. We're not even friends anymore. I want you to go away. Leave my life. Period. Do not call me. Do not visit me. Do not write to me. Any further contact will be construed as stalking, and I will call the police." If, after this conversation, he contacts you anyway, you do what you said: you call the police and report him as a stalker.

The odds are very good that he's just a distraught kid. However, where your personal safety is concerned, you can't take that chance. These things can escalate very, VERY quickly.

 

run, b@#$%, run!

Serioulsy though, you don't want to be with a guy who bugs you in any way. Shake this fool off and find someone who wants to be around you, makes you want to be around them all the time, and you miss them when they are gone.

No, I am not gay, just married and happy.

 

nice reference. You know this means that she's taking him to England while you're going to a pound me in the ass federal prison...

"I'm incarcerated Lloyd!"

 

That's real talk right there girl, ya hurd?

Seriously i was only ever obsessed with one chick, she ****ed with my head though, never spelled it out for me, told me what was what. So after a couple of "semi-dates" I thought I was in like Flynn but it was more like out like a Kraut.

The following is a list of things that happened that were supposed to "give me the hint"

-Her best friend tells me "You will never be more than a friend"
-Other friend tells me "She does like you, BUT..."
-She tells me she wishes she could get back with her old boyfriend (my best friend at the time)
-She tells me about all the guys she's ****ing
-She doesn't care if the whole world is groping her, but she doesn't like it if I get too close.
-She gets weirded out if its assumed we're together
-I admit that I think I'm in love with her, she says stuff like "who knows what could happen in the future, or ... why can't I love you now"


AFTER ALL OF THIS I STILL DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT SHE DOES NOT WANT A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ME


Moral of the Story : men are completely stupid and need to be force-fed the real facts because we don't have gay things like intuition to help us discern such things (Or we're too egotistical to accept it, and we go into a massive self-deteriorating sense of denial). We need it bashed over our heads, signed sealed and notorized.

Stop ****ing around and playing games, keep it real from the start is my sermon.

 

A lot of this **** sounds sooo damn similar and familiar

 

can I co-sign this?