I'm just going to ask it... How do people last longer in bed?

Why would this be a good thing? In order to last longer you should make yourself not enjoy it?

Control, control, you must learn control!

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This works, plus you can play with her boobies but that might get you too excited.

 

Well i only think about it enough not to climax, after awhile I get back at it.

 

Cocaine is a hell of a drug.

 

practice

 

If the feeling gets too intense, you could probably just let some of the air out of her.....

 

One of the best stand up shows ever.

 

I've heard some people will go at it for a while until they feel they are about to go over the edge. At that point they pull out, go down on the girl for a while, then get back to business. This way it doesn't interrupt things too much for her and you can last longer. I have not tried this because my wife isn't really too interested in the oral thing once the main event gets going, but if that's the best way to make things better for your girl, go for it.

I have discovered one thing (about myself...can't speak for others). I can sometimes struggle to last but there is always a point that, when reached, the struggle suddenly ceases (no, not that). It's like you reach a point where the sensation deadens just enough that you can use normal control and it no longer becomes difficult to hold back. As I say, I don't know if that is the case with everyone, but for me it is just a matter of reaching that point, through whatever means necessary (whether it's thinking of the basketball game, or watching television through a reflection in a mirror/picture frame on the wall...anything).

Or you could just wack your schlong on the bedside table as hard as you can to deaden it and then get down to business.

 

can't last in the sack? Sounds like her problem, not yours, brah. I wouldn't sweat it.

 

Are you speaking from experience?

 

lol no sir. No problems here.

and trust me, I have a statistically significant sample size to base this on.

 

There are a lot of ways you can last longer but it really depends on how comfortable you are in the sack. Someone already mentioned having her ride you which works really well. Another is to simply change positions every time you feel close.

I really hate the advice of thinking of something else because the whole reason for sex is to enjoy what you are doing. That doesn't mean you enjoy it so much you go within 10 minutes or something though. Most likely, you will need to learn to calm down a little and not get over stimulated.

Also, try rubbing one out the night before or something instead of like 15-20 minutes before - might help you out a bit more.

 

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This works

 

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Sorry to hear about your problem and here's a few suggestions that I have.
The first is to wear 2 condoms to lessen the sensation. Also as other posters have suggested taking it a little slower should help too.

One thing that helps is better physical fitness. Think of doing it like running a 10K instead of a 100 M dash. If you have good cardio you will find you that you can last longer and keep up a steadier pace and if you are really fit even if false start out of the blocks you can reset and get back in the race quickly.

Also even if you are still blowing it quickly take more time with the preliminaries. Your girlfriend will appreciate it and won't mind so much that the actual act was short.

 

How did it take 23 posts before this joke was made?

 

Hook up with the woman who has 300 orgasms a day.

 

In your teens maybe. Nowadays, there's a 20-30 minute recharge period if even that quick. And by that time I'm more interested in Aaron Brooks hitting another three than another go at it.