I'm just going to ask it... How do people last longer in bed?

You disagree, but you just proved part of my argument in OP's case (if he is not some slimy troll).

 

1. If he isn't a slimy troll, I don't know what kind he is.
2. I'm sure this is common knowledge, or maybe I'm way off base, but IIRC, you are a female, correct? This would give you a qualified perspective on the topic we cavemen lack.
3. How do people last longer in bed? Take a xanax and f**k for days.

 

1. I gave up on paultsk, ages ago, but his threads are highly entertaining.

2. Anyone can give a logical perspective on it, as me being a woman, it's irrelevant. I used to sell and even studied (got feedback) on certain male/female sexual enhancement products, mostly OTC stuff, like Maca Root or Valerian.

3. Yeah, alot of drugs have that effect of making a person either more relaxed (anti-depressants) or lose control of their anxiety (hallucination/stimulant type drugs). That makes them c*m much slower, because the body for some reason doesn't release the sea soldiers as fast. Some meth addicts have said that meth improves their sex drive and performance alot, because they are out of their freaking minds. Because, that substance compound is powerful and effects so many body functions, it puts the person on another planet.

In his case, he is probably stimulated by a girl's looks more so (IDK), if he would last with what he considers a less attractive girl or not. He might have that problem with any woman, which is called anxiety performance. It varies from person to person. I suggested earlier that it might be the looks of the girl, then again he comes off as socially awkward so it might be a broader problem than looks. If he were a better lover or more experience lover, not when it just comes to intercourse, then he might not have this problem as much.

http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/435884-overview
http://www.tweaker.org/crystalsex/cmsex.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6646180...t/meths-aphrodisiac-effect-adds-drugs-allure/

It can make you feel on a high, wide awake, confident, sometimes invincible, impulsive, less likely to feel pain, and very horny with fewer inhibitions.
http://drug****ed.tht.org.uk/Content.aspx?id=1869

 

I slept 8 hours last night.

 

Firstly, I LOVE your moniker PAUL pause TSK much more than his actual.

This, exactly. Experience will help him, and the kid sounds like he's 17 at heart, and lord knows I wasn't pressing the right buttons when I was his age, but your comment about American men and the culture of conquering "p***y" having fogged the ethic of purpose, passion in sex, and the dedication of actually making love to their partners rings true.

You get what you put into it. Being more invested emotionally, and more invested in the partner has definitely given me free-range to ride all night even in the face of overwhelming arousal and attraction, whereas this was definitely not something I was capable of in my youth. Good news being, for paulTSK, that this is an acquired skill. Much like trolling.

 

Women can be just as guilty. Not really using foreplay, being romantic, engaging her man, not really making him feel comfortable, more pleasurable sex, and hitting his sensual spots (besides his man stick).

I bet you've heard male friend or relative say, "My wife sits there like a cardboard, and nothing else."

Honestly, there are some women aren't necessarily good lovers, themselves, sometimes will put that off on the man. She's what you would call a very inexperience or rigid lover.

 

Back to that point, is why I originally only said Americans vs. American men? I cannot put my finger on it. It's like we are taught the main course (intercourse) is all that matters, but you rarely hear about the other stuff.

It's like if a guy tells me or sends me a picture of his p#nis, they will get made, when I tell them it doesn't get me excited. It's like I don't feel that strongly about you, and that just made me feel awkward, like a banana hanging over my mouth in a graduation picture.

 

Amen brotha