I don't mean to judge the guy, i still have to watch myself on getting personal with posters. i'm not the best person to lecture anyone on posting civility. and i would definitely engage him in personal back and forths. but as master baiter stated, I wouldn't wish any ill will on anyone on this site, even guys i know who have some beliefs on race that are personally negative towards me. it is not cool to speculate on personal problems, i definitely would not hold my personal life up as an example of how one should live one's life. I have been accused of having a chip on my shoulder and I understand where that accusation comes from. you post on this site your opinions, you have live with the consequences of people developing an opinion about you. they might even wonder what has shaped your life to develop these opinions. meowgi stood out like a sore thumb because of his anger and not only that his switch in attitude. I used to think i was the only one who noticed but as you can see, people can't help but wonder.
In my case I think it's just I'm horrible with names. On other sites I'm frequent where people have avatars, I generally know a good bit about them due to posting history just by knowing their avatars. Here, not so much as my brain farts with names.
The rest of the post was a bit much, but I do agree to move on -- I don't think we've ever had any problems so no need to start now.