Been through 2 breakups in the past 6 months. Girl #2 got me over Girl #1, and newfound multiple poon has gotten me over Girl #2. I love being the only single member of my band. There is only one thing that gets you over a breakup...wild nasty sex with new poon. Trust me...I'm a musician. :grin:
Ah, breakups/divorce suck. I hate to see two people go sour on each other. I'm sincerely sorry to see you go through this, LL. Dating since you were that young...you guys were bound to change. Don't blame yourself completely. It takes two. Given your impending singleness, I direct you to http://www.laddertheory.com/ Learn it, live it.
Hell, ours went up $141/mo. They claimed they misjudged our property taxes. They did this our first year in the house, too. But then they sent us a check for an overpayment at years end. Who the hell knows... LL, keep your head up, buddy. That way the beer doesn't roll down your chin.
Depends on the lender. Generally, you have to keep paying the mortgage insurance with less than 20% equity, but you may be able to pay your own homeowners and taxes. Those are the two items that may cause a yearly change in the monthly mortgage payment (up or down).
Damn, LL....that's awful. I can't even pretend to relate to what you're going through, but I can only imagine the pain you're in. Visiting family is a good start....hopefully when you come back, you'll be in a position to start rebuilding yourself. It sounds like you're going through a major transition, and at the end of it, I think you'll be happier with who you are. Time and patience, my friend.
Yeah, don't mind me. I've been to some Rockets games with them, and Stack24's place before games, so I guess I just feel some camaraderie and, frankly, sadness. I left Houston and never knew what happened, so feel uncomfortable sometimes since I'm a big fan of theirs. Suppose I should have taken it offline on FB. Guess it's weird to say it on a bbs. sry moes and finals if i was weird and intrusive but didn't you like the animated gif.
did you totally fail to notice the thread about dishwashers? Its good to see the blues musician lifestyle hasnt taken him out yet. :grin: Since when did you apologize for your normal state of being?
sux brah... nothing a good few faps can't handle. seriously, i hope you get thru the ****ty stuff fast man. its no where anybody wants be at.
Yeah, like having our entire relationship cataloged on this website wasn't weird and intrusive the whole time anyway. We went our separate ways, it was definitely for the best. LL - hopefully you will gain that same perspective some day.
Words to live by? _____ Seriously though -- it's sad that you're in the middle of a divorce, but you've become a better person LL. Just speaking on your BBS persona you've become a much more level headed moderate thinking person. That's a good thing if nothing else. I imagine you've taken this point of view in all aspects of your life -- your family needs to catch up with you.
Time to go to MargaritaVilla Rocket River "some people claim there is a woman to blame I dunno . . . .I could be my fault."
bobrek and Chuck, I found out this morning that my homeowner's insurance had been too low and that State Farm raised it from like 600 to 760 a month! Also, my property taxes went up a little bit. I asked the question about doing escrow as one lump sum payment but was told that I have to get out of PMI first. My lender is US Bank - never again.... Getting back to the thread topic - Landlord, hang in there buddy. Since June of last year, my life has been filled with disappointments, anxiety, doubt, fear, you name it. There was a time that if I went through this stuff when I was in my 20s, I might have done something drastic. But praise the Lord, I have been able to stay strong. All I can tell you is to stay strong and know that you have an excellent support system with your brethren on the BBS and especially with Hipster Howl.
