this girl hurt me in the past. she wants to get back with me, but i only see her as a friend. i actually posted the whole story back in march 04. must be in here somewhere. the name of the thread was girl problems (with paragraphs) for anyone who remembers.
2nd look I think you are right. The nose, lips, and eyes are the same. In the second picture it does look like her chin hangs lower, but most likely you can't tell because of the extra weight she put on.
Guys, just FYI, this thread is going to get a VERY short leash. I'm not terribly comfortable with someone posting the picture of a stranger and having other total strangers take pot shots at her for whatever reason. So, keep it mellow or this goes bye bye.
Never, ever, ever - NEVER - have any contact whatsoever again. Silence. Click. Trash can. Shower. Anti-bacterial soap. More soap, Dammit! You are preventing yourself from meeting new, healthy women. STOP. NOW. [EDIT] That has much more to do with the previous thread than any picture. No need to dwell on any further photo evidence of trouble. STAY AWAY from TROUBLE. [/EDIT].
Ok, after reading this thread I have come to the conclusion that you are indeed a dumbass. This girl is psycho and you are too for not only believing the horse**** that she told you but now talking to her again. She isnt even hot anymore, why put up with her ****? Even if she was ridiculously hot, why put up with her ****? As Fatty said in the first thread: These are words of wisdom and you should heed them carefully. Just because it has been a few years doesn't mean to begin having contact with her again. Also, you are a dumbass, this point cannot be emphasized enough.
Chill out, Kurt Hennig. Obviously you're interested in the material more than in the inner beauty. There's no need to call him anything, man... he's just here to have a few questions answered. (a smiley is a way to say "don't get mad at me, either..." ) Again, dnj, it's your call.. and since when can a picture tell us anything about how a girl behaves? Perhaps if you can indulge us on what has made you hesitate on going back with her, we can help. Jeff, what's different between this thread and the ride ride thread?
Did you read the other thread about what he went through with the chick the first time around? If you dont agree with my conclusion after reading that then I will retract my statement of dumbassedness. The link so you dont have to go very far: Another Girl Problem
That's not your mother, its a man! Seriously, if that is a before and after.....I believe I saw this before on that nasty plastic surgery show with that one guy who wanted to be J-Lo
You're right. You WIN. He sort of digs his own grave. But still, don't call people names... not very nice... [insert eclesiastical choir sounds here]
That's the before shot, the after shot is on the first page. dj, I assume is that is a picture of you next to her in the before shot?
I agree with him as I just read the background...I know that first love crap, but damn, it isn't worth it...Btw, what did you mean about the "sex part"...Has she been acting out...
For those of you that have not read that other thread... DO IT! It's messed up. Seriously. Man, stay away from this girl!!! She is completely messed up. And now she isn't even hot. I mean, in that last thread you counted that as a reason. Now... what's good about this girl?!?!?! I think you should go back to that thread. Read it yourself. Imagine it being someone else. Now realise that you would punch sense into that guy. NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN!
Dnjndmrc5, 18 months is long in teen time. If you didn't spend enough time knowing who she was before, then you'd be dating a different person regardless of what she looks like now. Guys rag on their friend's girls no matter what reason. Get more confident. If you like who she is with the more time you spend together, then she'll grow even more attractive over time. If you still can, keep it light for now, and just see where it goes. Sometimes common sense stuff registers differently when it's written down. Not sure if it's the same girl if he hasn't seen her in a year and a half.
