Damn, this is like a soap opera... just got to know what happened... So gr8-1, did she talk to you today?
As a matter of fact, no. Instead of saying hi to me, she merely waved at me as I sat down. The charm is gone, and frankly so is the lust. I know, I know, maybe she's being coy, but I doubt it. She is flat out ignoring me. She doesn't ask me what I did last night or anything. I know I deserve to be alone, it's true. But, she just wasn't the right one. She obviously fooled me (us) for a minute though. I will get back on the horse one day though. As for my immediate future, I'm headed to a bar.
Moving this back to the top... Are you sure she's not interested (am I reading your post, right?) and you're not reading too much into it again? Where is everyone? On the bright side, if the charm is gone, that's less pressure on you, right? I don't know what you should do, and perhaps you're not looking for further suggestions. Still, I hope you're certain before you give up. Damn, I am so living vicariously through you, it's pathetic.
Just remember- "Only the fine ones matter" - AJB Looks like you are well on your way to being the Mac of the Sophomore Class
You shouldn't treat yourself as a dungeon dweller. You act like nobody likes you and nobody ever will. It's not like you are fat and have acne. Keep your head up, son.
NOt fat, don't have acne either. My last post was rather reactionary, but eh. BTW, she's going on a long trip (out of state, after school). Would it be weird if I bought her mace for protection? She's gonna drive home (long, long drive) by herself.
get her a mag light...she'll know your thinking about her saftey and she'll get all mushy and yada yada yada...good times.
Fly out one-way and help her drive home. Do some camping and sightseeing along the way! Don't know if that'll actually work out, but I thought it sounded fun. Where is she going?
gr8-1, Just because she doesn't say hi to you one freakin day doesn't mean she isn't interested. Do you give up on everything so easily? Finals dont end till like the 14th right? As a fellow longhorn, ASK THE FREAKING GIRL OUT.. ask her to get some coffee or something. See if she wants to start studying for finals and take her to starbucks or something. Afterwards, take her to the Union. With all of your "how gay are you?" scores.. you have to change your name to gay-1 if you don't do something. -F2k1 Good Luck!
I'm just saying it seems as if she's lost interest. For those suggesting me to fly out with her, that's crazy. I can't even ask her out, much less go on a trip, lol. I bought her some mace for her trip. Honestly, I'm a guy and I can't stand driving 4 hours, I don't know how she does 15+ in one day. I don't think girls should travel by themselves. I bought her a thing of pepper spray today. I'm not gay, btw (not that there's anything wrong with it), just shy and sensitive. I'll get over it. Tomorrow will be a better day.
So, gr8-1, because you haven't said anything to her either, is it fair to say that *you* are no longer interested? The way you talk/post here, it doesn't sound like it. But, maybe you're giving off a not interested vibe that she's picking up. Yet another thing I've learned about people is that when they have some semblance of self-esteem, the natural reaction at a possible blow-off is to just withdraw from the person. It's mental self-defense. FYI: I graduated from college last year. Trust me - you DON'T want to let this go by. Single, cute, funny, flirty - hit that or hook me up, beeach.
I didn't mean fly out WITH her gr8-1. I meant, why don't you fly out to wherever she's going when she's ready to make the trip home? You help her drive back and have some fun along the way. Just a thought! After all, girls just wanna have fun!!! Where will she be returning from? A 15 hour drive? You've still got a couple of weeks, I guess, to hook this up, right? Well, obviously you've had conversations with her before. Just tell her you're worried about her, it would be a fun trip if....., you've never driven through that part of the country....., I'd love to go camping in that state park....., why don't I help you..!!, we could..!!, that would be fun...!! C'mon, man. Girls love adventure, fun and a guy that will actually have the nerve to do SOMETHING!!! Just go for it all, dude. No big deal. I'm starting to think there's something wrong with you. Aren't you in last place in our fantasy baseball league???
If it was obvious to you that she was flirting with you, she probably was. If you're worried about the rejection, ask her out in a group thing. Like if you and some friends go to a club one night or something, ask her to go along. The restaraunt thing was a good idea too, if it's not too late to do. I know school's getting out soon, but that's just as good. Have an after-finals celebration and invite her, even if it's just you and some friends hanging out and drinking or something. If I were this girl, I'd go out with you!
I asked her out via email, well kind of. I just said we should keep in touch. She's responded, but I'm too chicken to open it. Whatever her response, I am glad I asked. It's the biggest step. I thought I wouldn't care about her response, but I guess I do. I'll open it tonite after a few stiff drinks.
I can't. I'm skeeereeedd!!!~ It's nervewrecking. I need a few drinks after work. I had promised myself, that whatever she says, I'll remain even-keeled.
Hope for the best and expect the worst. Whatever she has replied will not change if you wait til later. What if she said to call her before 4:00 pm today? I know how nerve racking it is to wait on a decision. I waited two hours in a court room to find out if I would get a chance to redo my divorce. I waite for nothing as the trial date was bumped. I had already resigned myself to the fact that the decision would be what it was. When the change of date happened, I was neither happy nor sad. It was neither bad nor good news. NOW OPEN IT!!! j/k...good luck on building up the nerve.
She said she'll be back in Austin and "we'll chill for sure." The thing is, I told her to call me when she gets back. So, I don't know.
