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I lost my son and my ex-wife on July 2nd 2014

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by imasonamagun, Jul 14, 2014.

  1. imasonamagun

    imasonamagun Member

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    Good grief, these morning don't get any easier. Thank you again all for the encouraging words and prayers. This board is truly amazing.
     
  2. rezdawg

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    Unbelievable, so sorry to hear. :(
     
  3. macho GRANDE

    macho GRANDE Elvis, was a hero to most but................

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    Wow. My condolences. That's heartbreaking
     
  4. the futants

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    While there is nothing in the world I could possibly say to make this any less painful...I feel compelled to say...something. I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.

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  5. g1184

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    I lost my father earlier this year, and a friend just before that. There was no console that anybody could really offer, and I imagine it's the same for you. Nobody can fix what was lost, or substitute the things I had still planned to do with him. No words can bring him back and no earthly possession either. I would give up all I have, every last nail, every last cent, if I knew it would bring him back. Accepting the new reality is not easy, hell, I don't even want to do it, so I pray for you because I know it will be harder for you than it was for me.

    "stay strong" doesn't mean "don't let them see you cry". It means being confident enough to show your daughter that it's ok to hurt, it's ok to cry, and it's ok to miss them. It means grieving those who have passed, remembering their greatest moments, but also steering clear of the downward spiral of depression. It means seeking help when you know you need help - emotionally, monetarily, or physically.

    You probably already know all this. I just want to reinforce that you are not alone.
     
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    so SO sorry to hear this.
    My heart goes out to you and your entire family.

    God bless.
     
  7. Christopher

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    Very sorry for your loss.
     
  8. Deckard

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    What a terrible, terrible loss. You have my deepest sympathy.
     
  9. FTW Rockets FTW

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    Deepest condolences. I don't even know what to say. I am lost for words.

    All I am going to say is I am extremely sorry for your loss and please be strong.
     
  10. NewRoxFan

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    Heartbreaking... you are in my family's prayers.
     
  11. Precision340

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    I am sorry for your loss! You and your daughter are in my prayers!
     
  12. droxford

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    Saddened to hear this terrible account. There are no words.
     
  13. Granville

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    I cried as I read every heartbreaking word. It took a lot of courage to compose yourself during what has to be your worst nightmare. Your ability to do that gives me faith that you have the ability to compartmentalize your own grief and be there your daughter.

    Sincere condolences and much respect.
     
  14. jiggadi

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    Praying for you.
     
  15. imasonamagun

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    Y'all are awesome! I find myself a little less afraid of lightening storms these days.
     
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    My deepest condolences to you & your family. Prayers be with y'all in this difficult time.
     
  17. mikol13

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    Reading your words has literally brought me to tears. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you and your daughter. I know you will never get over the loss of your son, but I hope the strength it takes to get you by comes quickly.
     
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    It's inspiring you had the strength to share this with us. I couldn't imagine myself to have your strength. Truly a inspiration. My prayers be with you.
     
  19. giddyup

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    Unimaginable pain and loss. So sorry to read of this.
     
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    All the best, I will keep you in my thoughts
     

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