wait three weeks, pop the question , and then start another thread about it asking if it was the right thing to do or not....
Yeah, it sounds to me like maybe being together so long at such a young age is the key factor here. You weren't even adults when you started seeing each other. People grow up and change. The important thing here is that you are making the necessary decision that has to be made. You cannot stay with a cheating woman, a cheater is exponentially more likely to cheat again. You're young, you have your youth, and you seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders. You've made the right decision, and none of this was your fault. This will pass and eventually you'll be happy again.
I know it hurts, but you're both WAY too young to be together for that long. I dated a girl starting in high school for over 5 years. Then, just one day I woke up and realized there's other ladies out there............lots of them. 22 is the time for fun bro. Not to be tied down worried if someone is cheating on you. You have the rest of your life to be attached. I promise, shortly........you'll be having the time of your life. Saying that...........what happened next?
You must know post pics or a link to a social network site. This will make you feel better. I promise.
I've always been with "States" women. I find, since I'm not a "normal race" in there eyes, women in the States tend to do a lil more....I guess you can say they like to explore. And for some, they all tend to believe that I would make "pretty babies." LOL! And dont even get me started on how hot some Latina's can be....good gawd! I'm sorry, Parents just dont understand man.....
i fully agree.... i was with a guy from 18-24 on and off and i thought it was my world. boy was i wrong!!!!!!!!!!! the 20s are for partying, meeting ppl and having fun. it hurts, but go out and enjoy it. one day you can and will look back and laugh at yourself and thank the person you end up with. TRUE love is an amazing thing! young love is necessary but painful; it helps you grow and realize what you really need/want in life. good luck to you.
What kinda lame story is this?! I thought she really cheated on you. I thought there would be more action. You caught her texting another dude woopty doo. I thought this was going to involve your girl sleeping with your best friend or brother or something.
Trini, I'd say just ask her straight up: "Are you cheating on me?" And see how she reacts. Then, go on to explain that HIDING stuff and allowing people to say "I want to kiss you" on text without telling you about it constitutes cheating, even if she doesn't think so. She'll come clean. Stop letting her sister guide YOUR life. You can decide for yourself. What about how some black girls can be? And what about how some white girls can be? Oh, man, do tell. I kid. You know you're digging yourself into the "stereotype" hole here, don't you, sir?
I don't know what to say, just stay cool, if she really cheated you then don't worry because you know that relationship wasn't true and you will surely have many disappointments in life. Keep your head up, there are million of chicks and surely some of them like you but can't approach you or something...
Agree with everything said here. Would also like to add that relationships are built on trust, and if there's no trust, you'll likely end up as a guest on the Maury Show, and it wont be pretty.
not good at all. Run away and fast. Next thing you know she will be circle jerking 5 dudes..."but honey, i just wanted some compliments"
Man, this story is never-ending. He wrote an encyclopedia's (A-Z mind you) worth of boring, stale material.
With all these to be continued this story sounds made up. But if not she's the Roger Clemens of relationships. Put an asterisk by her name and move on.
I didn't finish the story. As I said it's kinda long so I have to do it in parts. Besides it's hard to keep writing non stop like that. Btw, thanks everybody for the support.
