I introduced my girlfriend to my friends a couple days ago...she slept with one of them 2 years ago.

at least you know the person and he isn't a bad person... right?

 

Look at the flip side...she could have stayed quiet and then told you 20 years later.

 

Better than 2 of your friends 1 year ago, amirite?

 

....crap..

 

Tough break bro.

Think about it for a while.

But if you are into her and she digs you --- just forget about it.

She was honest about it too.

If you can't get over it, then end it.

 

You have to break up with her, she knows who has the bigger ****

 

Depends on how good of friends you two are. If it's someone you'll both be hanging out with all the time, that may be an issue, if you're the least bit jealous.

 

It Ain't no fun, if the homies can't have none.

 

Well, she's with you now. She was with him THEN. She was not with both of you together, was she? The only time that's a problem is if you are insecure of keeping her happy with you, and if she takes the relationship with him as a serious one.

Stop making this a bigger deal than it is. Grow up. If you want to stay together, do. If you don't, leave her now.

 

Move on. Being sloppy seconds is never good.

 

Hate to pile on but I slept with your girlfriend a couple years ago too

 

Like so many others, this thread is useless without pics.

 

I sincerely mean no offense, but based on these facts your girlfriend might be a w****.

 

even if there are fingercuffs stories be the bigger man bro...the past is in the past.

 

Shes not a w****, but she gives great BJs

 

The Thadeus has laid wood on every mother, sister and wife in this thread. Deal with it

 

What did you think she was a virgin bruh? What does it matter who she has slept with? I doubt your friend is the worst she has smashed.

 

Lots of differing opinions on this. It's hard to distinguish the line, though. Technically, if you're with a girl that wasn't a virgin before you met her, that also makes her sloppy seconds, no? It's just, in the OP's case, you know who exactly where she's been for at least one relationship.

Random story time: I enrolled in a neuro lab in junior year one summer, and I became interested in a really cool girl, who was a senior. The lab was run by 2 grad students. After we became friends, I found out that she went out with one of the grad students and slept him him. The girl and I are still friends, but it's really hard to imagine a relationship with her.

And the grad student wasn't even considered a friend, so I can't even imagine the OP's case.

 

*with him, not "him him." lol fail.