Are you able to gain custody of the kids??? Do they live in a dangerous enviroment?? Pictures of her partying, drinking or doing drugs?? Any child neglect from her part??? Get a damn lawyer son!!!!
unless she shows up in court with a Herion Needle in her arm you chances of getting the kids are pretty slim Rocket River
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For the posters out there that are criticizing the OP, his parenting skills and his choice in a partner, if you don't have kids, STFU and get outta here! You have no clue what it's like to deal with a crappy excuse for "other parent" that just causes problems for all parties involved. I'd wish for the dickheads passing out judgment to one day have a baby mama such as the one the OP has, if not for the fact that the child would feel the negative impact on their own life. Getting off my soapbox now.
Thanks alot bro, that meant alot. Alot of people don't understand but men aren't treated equally when it comes to these situation. Esp. when the mom thinks the child is hers and were just there for support. She makes it as if its a previledge for me to see my daughter. I come 15 minutes late and she say just pick her up next week, i already told you not to come late, im done talking bye. Alot of things I left out that makes me want to rip my hair out but what can you do man, what can you do... Let me give yall another example okay, my mom is a babysitter so she watches my daughter while im at work. My daughter bangs were long and kept poking her eyes so my mom decided to cut her bangs, I came home and saw her bangs chopped off so I called my baby mama and told her "hey her bangs were long and they kept poking her eyes so I cutted it alittle shorter" I said i cut it cause i didnt want her and my mom to get into it. Then this crazy witch curses me out and drives over to my house and takes her home when I barely got her that week. First I wasnt going to open the door but she threatened to call the cops and all these drama.. I hate her!
Whatever the backstory is with the OP, I still give him support on the stated issue. Its far FAR too convenient to slap the "deadbeat" tag on the man in the situation. Way to easy to go with the "handle your responsibilities" thing. The system is flawed. Man is ordered to pay child support. Gets laid off. Falls behind on payments. Is told get another job then. Its the worst job market since the Great Depression, he's trying his butt off but cant find work. Because of economic factors outside his control, he has to get jail time? Of course the woman can just lose interest in the guy for any apparent reason. She can "double up", give him NO EMOTIONAL support, just brow beat him. And let Daddy Court System jump in for her and straighten him up. Anyways... pics or, ya know...
Aww man. As this story progresses I feel more and more sympathy for Luckkky. Hope everything gets better man. For reals.
