As many mistakes as you seem to have made, and have been pointed out to you in this thread, it sounds like your baby mama is basically using the child support payments to support both herself and your child. And that's not right. Child support should be for the child. It's bad enough he/she has to grow up without a traditional family structure (not saying single parents or divorced parents can't raise great children, just wouldn't be what you'd want first and foremost), but now he/she isn't getting the full benefit of the financial resources due to him/her, and is learning from a mother who apparently doesn't value hard work. Your situation sucks. Be as good a dad as you can and when your son/daughter grows up, he/she will get to form their own opinion of you and your baby mama. Oh yea...pics or gtfo!
If you are truly a parent, there are certainly signs that would lead some to believe you are an unfit one.
That's a really sad story. Not really funny imo. ESPN ran a story on it recently. His son was born with cerebral palsy. Of course, she died from the shooting.
This BBS is simply not the same without some Luckkky drama and all of the posters giving him hell for it. Welcome back sir :grin: