^ This ^ This ^ THIS! Because... (1) She needs to keep you around and moderately happy so that she has a place to stay (2) Many (if not most) young single chicks keep more than one guy around in order to have options. This will usually involves sex. This other dude she's seeing (and probably screwing) is real and won't go away until you've been hurt. Sever your ties to her. Get her out of the house. Let her pursue her multiple-beau interests with other men, so that you don't get hurt. It's over. The sooner you accept this and make adjustments to COMPLETELY remove her from your life, the better.
I don't know about that. The messages found thru his spying look pretty chaste. Some kissing and petting. If they were having sex, I'd expect communications to be more graphic.
OP how old are you, & where do you live? You need to go out and meet new women, let's go **** some white chicks.
wash your **** in the sink and find a new girls sink to wash your depressed peice and keep on movin' on. kick the wench out. had a buddy go thru the same turns out she was ****in his other pals while he was working but using him to have a place to stay. homewrecka!!!
Women lie, men lie. Just depends if you choose to be the victim or not. I'm finally overcoming something similar to what you're going through. It's best to just keep your head up....and do you. Forget about her....and when she realizes you have stopped caring she might want you back....then it'll be your decision to say either "**** you" or "I love you." Choose wisely.
I repeat what the others have said about moving on, no matter how much it hurts. I've had 2 who I did this to and they came back to me- but here's the truth- both ultimately didn't work out. When I met my current wife, we knew instantly and we've never looked back. But it took until I was 30. Long time to wait, but worth it.
It's got nothing to do with assumptions on a woman's character. I'm saying the evidence he relayed in the content of the messages is too chaste. That is, the messages from this other guy.
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She's in her mid-20's... she's skype'ing him.... texting him... calling him... ...he mentioned the unforgettable moment "when she was hanging out on his bed."... ... sorry, dude, but she's f***ing him.
i had sex with katie too man Spoiler but really...she showed the dude her tatas over skype and he has sent penis pics.
1.) Punch a wall or two, let the anger manifest. 2.) Booze, weed, etc. 3.) Read High Fidelity. 4.) Cheap rebound ****. 5.) Self-loathing over the cheap rebound **** 6.) Move on, even if you love her. Just because you love somebody doesn't mean you feel like putting up with their issues. You've already given her all the power in the relationship and emasculated yourself with your insecurity. A woman never wants what she can easily have. 7.) Time heals all wounds. 8.) You're right as rain and either banging chicks left and right with restored confidence, or you've found a new squeeze who makes it easy. This is the 8 fold plan to getting over a bad breakup.
That's one quote that makes me think it's not sexual. If you were having sex on the bed, why in the world would you say "hanging out"?
(1) women in their 20's don't hang out on another guys bed. (2) hanging out on a guy's bed is what chicks do after they've f**cked him on the guy's bed. (3) under what circumstances does she find herself in his room, on his bed... with him? answer: sex (4) Add up the above with smooching, texting, calling, and skype'ing and... yyyyah. they're f**king. (5) If he lives in a dorm room, there may be a very remote chance that this chick and the other guy, both in their 20's, were hanging out on his bed and not having sex. But this really is highly improbable - we are talking about college students. (6) Really, it's moot. If she hasn't f**ked him yet, she will soon as she continues to play Rock3t Man as a sap. He doesn't need that and should get out.
Yup. **** being someone's fall back plan. You're settling for less than what you're worth. Kick the b**** to the curb and bang her sister.
