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How to talk to random strangers on Facebook

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Rafi, Jan 25, 2013.

  1. Fyreball

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    Haha, true, but I guess you can only work with what you have. Isn't life all about turning weaknesses into strengths? ;)
     
  2. SwoLy-D

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    Do you want to bet? :p

    I'd be willing to break my own rule just to prove that isn't necessarily the truth, although it contradicts what I'm saying. Attention-craving girls would do ANYTHING to have more friends... maybe the psychos even more... :grin:
     
  3. Fyreball

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    In order for me to show you the light, you must first prove to me that you can step out of the darkness, my son. :)

    Haha, but seriously, it's really not that difficult. Just remember that she's someone who has interests, hobbies, loves, hates, and a whole lot of quirks and eccentricities just like everyone else. You know she's hot. She knows she's hot. Show her that's not all you're interested in.
     
  4. Fyreball

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    Haha, I probably should have made "MAKE SURE SHE IS LEGAL" rule #1, huh?? My soon-to-be-fiancee can definitely attest to the fact that I'm not a creeper......well, at least I hope she can. ;)
     
  5. DonkeyMagic

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    remember the good ole days of going out and picking up chicks in person?
     
  6. Fyreball

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    Seriously. Well, on a plus note, maybe this is the world's way of sorting out the over-population problem.....
     
  7. SK34

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    Or bring out her insecurities and make her feel ugly... Then beautiful again. Jk..

    Bro, go do all this in person. Not behind a computer, that's just pathetic. And you'll have a chance to be catfished them Nev will have to make a tv show about it.
     
  8. bobmarley

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    been posted before but, I hear this is what you should do.

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  9. da_juice

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    That is the creepiest, stupidest thing. I'm far from being an expert, but this is no way to meet girls. In fact, I can't see anything good coming out of what you're doing.
     
  10. Isabel

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    The "random strangers" probably won't even add you, at least without some explanation. I would only add people I knew, maybe some others for game playing if it was clear that we were adding each other for that reason and they seemed OK (and these have usually been females - often older housewives), and if we had several mutual friends I knew in real life. Because in that case I would figure I had met the person at some point and just wasn't remembering for some reason.

    But random creepers... no. Random male creepers with an all-female friends list probably aren't up to any good. As for those of you who have hot females you don't know adding you - sorry to burst your bubble but we all get those requests. Do not think for a minute it is real, nor add them to let whoever is behind the account access your information.

    Fyreball had some actual reasonable suggestions to how to work this if you want to operate this way - I still prefer meeting new people in person first but to each his/her own. I find that the internet doesn't give a real sense of the other person's personality etc. - even if both parties are being honest - there is no substitute for interaction in person. I would personally rather circulate in real life, not stay in my little corner all day, and have a wide circle of acquaintances and actual conversations. But to each his/her own.
     
  11. Pringles

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    If you ever had any girlfriends, then you would not be surprised how many guys add random girls on Facebook.

    It's actually pretty hilarious.
     
  12. Rocket River

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    . . . it is more than just SOUNDING creepy

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    LOL
     
  13. BFF

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    Then don't use the word "creeper." You're over the age of 20.
     
  14. cheke64

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    todays generation is way different than the past. you just can't simply invite them somewhere. they know you up to something.

    online has success because you can trick them into something your not (money,cars,cool stuff).

    I remember this colombian hot chick didnt want no part of me until she saw me hoopin in da hood. Now I was cute to her. She came at me.
     
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    I poke them.
     
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    I see guys doing this all the time on facebook and it's always the girl that ends the conversation. For example,

    Guy: Hey thanks for the add. How's your day going?
    Girl: Good, you?
    Guy: Pretty good. So what's your plans for today?

    The girl never responds after that. HAHAHAHAHHA
     
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    I been doing that forever now, I get laid about 1% of the time so it usually takes about 90 girls to finnaly lay one. It's worth it if you have and have a job where you just sit around. I just talk to as many as I can all day long. The more you get rejected the easier it gets. It's like selling electricity door to door your going to get so many rejections but you can't let it get to you , gotta keep trying until you get it right. If your good looking then your odds will increase. I am decent looking but am out of shape so it's harder.
     
  20. Mr. Brightside

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    Damn OP, you're that guy. Everyone knows one of them.

    Just join a free dating site like Okcupid or something. Much easier than talking to randoms on FB. Or you could like every picture she has posted on FB. I'm thinking you will take that route.
     

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