wtf How far along have you got with her? you need to get to that part first where she is intimately horny about you. That is step 1. Once you get to that then it will only intensify. I'm married and my wife gets mad if I 'ask for sex' but if I am cool about it, things usually work out better. Your gal might be a sex fiend waiting to bust out, and you are ruining it by talking about it all the time. Talk less about it tell her it's 'it just the head' I'm joking, but we need to know how far along in the process you are? that will help.
Stop asking. If you want to stay with her and she has repeatedly said "no" or has hinted that she doesn't want to, WAIT YOUR *SS until you marry her.
Yes she does know because we have been friends since 7th grade. We have only had brief talks about sex and she does not feel comfortable talking about it.
Wow you actually posted it. Um, all jokes aside just respect her. When she's ready she'll be ready. Don't try to rush into it especially if she isn't ready.
Why you troll me bro hahaha. Thanks for the advice anyways. I will definitely see what I can do tonight after she gets off work.
can you tell us how far along in the process you are? I dont need to know number of fingers or anything, just a rough idea here. thanks
Wow. Ordinarily, I'd suggest that you simply tell her that you have waited long enough and are going to experience sex either with her, or without her, with all due respect for her wishes on the matter. But after seeing that picture, I don't know. Do what feels right to you.
You've been dating this girl for over a year. This is 2012 bro. You are not the problem, but your girl is. From what you are telling us, you are more than likely going to be a virgin by graduation if you stay with this girl. I might be shallow, but in my opinion, you aren't going to end up marrying this girl anyways. Might as well just move on. It's your senior year! I just graduated; senior year is fun as hell. Don't waste it man. I'm serious about that.
Just tell her it'll be over in 5 sec anyways and then you'll have the rest of the day to post on numerous Jeremy Lin threads till 11:59/Tuesday...
Start by trying for something more extreme. Like hey! We should try anal. After she rejects that, normal sex won't seem like a bad idea.
This is the best advice in this thread. You may decide to move on anyway and still not find another girl or have sex with another girl, but that won't make it a wrong decision. From an adult perspective, the issue here is as much about what type of people you are, where you are in your lives, etc. as it is about just having sex - though I can understand that might be hard to recognize. The comments about the awkwardness discussing it, the infrequent kissing even. It all seems like you are ready to move on to some kind of next step and she isn't. All perfectly fine, and you may get there with her, eventually, but you have to decide if you want to or not, and if you do - and I'd say you at least like to pursue it - you need to start by being more frank and open about what you want, but not in a pressuring way. difficult, but possible. you sound mature enough. i think you know what to do. if and when you get to more advanced stages, please please please use protection. public service message there.
Always assumed you're black, damn. I wouldn't pressure her, you're both still young and she will agree when she's ready. Don't ruin a great partnership by rushing it.
