Too prude. You will never have a happy sexual relationship with her. Find a different chick- one who knows herself better, understands her own sexual needs, understands that their SO has needs, and knows what it means to be in a sexual relationship.
Dude, I remember when I lost my virginity, I called all my friends right from the bed when it was done and bragged to all of them about it. I tell you this because I understand the feeling. Also, if you are a decent human being, you will look back on this and feel like an ultradouche for having done this. I still feel like a dick when I think about it.
This wasn't to a girl named Mary was it? Cause I knew a girl whose boyfriend did what you described. She was totally embarrassed (this was like 8th grade circa 1994) and tried to deny it happened, but nobody believed her.
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Imagine that for some reason this "works" [bad] ... and they get married [WORSE]... have kids [EVEN WORSE], and THEY then become ClutchFans and read this in the archives: "Dad?!?!!? You... did this...? " [WORST CASE SCENARIO]. He will rethink this.
From 14 to 16, i rejected girls from doing the secks. I would only allow them to gimmie dat blow j. Finally at 17, i gave in to a w**** who had previously been tag teamed at a public swimming pool. I regret it to this day that all those cute girls i could have had real relationships with and had meaning when i lost my virginity, grew up to be real hot. To this day, i can't talk to sweet looking regular girls for real relationships. I only go straight after the obvious w**** for the quick secksy time. It all started with that mistake i made at 17. =(