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How to convince that special someone...

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by 713, Jul 16, 2012.

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  1. pirc1

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    umm post a daily update on this with your progress, this could be another EPIC thread.
     
  2. Yung-T

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    Never approach CF with serious problems, every thread turns into personal flaming wars, stupid gifs and memes.

    The best advice really is to don't rush it or by trying with a romantic weekend somewhere, where you two are alone and there's a nice atmosphere.
     
  3. RedRedemption

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    Just try not to be too nice and friendly. If she sees you as a "good guy" or "innocent" she'll never do you.
    I've made that mistake before. Being nice doesn't get you anywhere, unless you want a serious relationship of course.
     
  4. xcrunner51

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    Go watch American Pie..... it'll make you laugh and take your mind off things.

    Seriously though, there's only so many outcomes. 1) you stay persistent and it pays off at prom or something. 2) you break up and go after some easy azz 3) y'all go your separate ways in college and it ends having never happened.

    There's no magic non-pharmacologic method here.
     
  5. xcrunner51

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    Word. I just had to deal with that ish and it's the worst. You have to be aggressive. It's not wrong to tell her what you want. Either she gets the picture or decides you're not the 'one' who gets the flower bloom.
     
  6. RedRedemption

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    Yeah, being "understanding" and "patient" just gives her an excuse to hold off. Don't ever be a douche, only be nice/sweet every once in a while.

    Always works.
     
  7. SwoLy-D

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    :rolleyes: SO CLASSY.
     
  8. v3.0

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    ask her to solve this math problem; show her a number 1 hand sign with one hand and a number 0 with the other, put 1 inside 0 and ask her what that equals to (if she still doesn't understand proceed to place your tongue inside her mouth, watch out for those teeth she indeed looks like a biter)
     
  9. finalsbound

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    no, what's SAD is you downplaying the importance of condoms and birth control. thinking there's even a CHANCE these kids are going to stay virgins until marriage. teaching abstinence does not work. we're not all living in the stone age like you and bobrek.

    who the FU.CK cares if it's 98% or 99.8%? still better than 0%!

    i sometimes just can't believe what a ******* moron you are.
     
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  10. RedRedemption

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    Ouch. :eek:
    So is Swoly the new DD?
     
  11. SwoLy-D

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    LOL! :grin: "who the **.** cares", right?
    :grin: Nah. I've always been the same SwoLy.

    SD
     
  12. Pringles

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    Did you not have sex till marriage?
     
  13. Pringles

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    And 713,

    If you don't go to 2nd base and 3rd base before prom, than I highly doubt she'll want to give it up on prom night. Sorry man.


    +1 to all the advises that tells you go down on her first.

    All she needs is a taste. Start making out with her, than start messing with her p***y. She may stop you, at first. But after multiple attempts (not on the same night), she'll let you.

    Also, are you sure she's attracted to you? Like others have pointed out, it seems like you are friend zoned. Maybe bring it up and see whats up. I am still having trouble understanding how far (or not far) y'all have gone after at least an year.
     
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    So what makes you think that yall just aren't really good friends?
     
  15. v3.0

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    I think there's big confusion here, so the most important thing before we can give advice is:

    At what point is your relationship? Are you a regular couple or just had a few dates? Are you boyfriend and girlfriend?
     
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    i just came to say her shirt in that pic is really awesome, it shows she's a keeper, just be patient, dont be afraid to talk about it, and like some have already said, make it about her
     
  18. SwoLy-D

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    Admiral Ackbar says "IT'S A TRAP!" :p

    We're talking about someone 'trying to get laid' and asking about it on a message board, and even putting the picture up of a female who would be the potential person that someone will 'try to get laid' with, which is totally incorrect to do on a public place.

    I'll answer your question, though: YES.
     
  19. Codman

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    For real? That sucks!
     
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    [​IMG]

    I'll answer that question! :mad:

    *Yeah, I realized it's none of his concern, but... meh, I'll level with the guy, because he asked a straight question... nicely. But you have to ask me... NICELY.
     

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