I'm pretty successful w/ women. I'm kinda of a quite guy by nature.....but I can carry a conversation. That......combined w/ a nice personality and hours in the gym works for me. Have a gf now. And you guys are right.....women can sense that your taken and they try harder lol
Typically I examine what I'm looking for. Getting laid is nice but a relationship is worth more. I don't jump through hoops for anyone, unless it is my girlfriend... Then I usually look at it as doing something nice for her. If I see a hoop laid out I try to avoid it unless it's to fulfill a real need in the relationship. Women each are attracted to different small things, aka money, power, looks... I have learned they are really looking for strength of character. Strong men with strong minds. Basically the good ones who aren't out for your money, power or just looks, tend to respond toward how much of a man you really are. How you carry yourself, what you do with your time. They all like men. Not grown up boys... straight up men who act it. Basically act like an adult with some maturity and serious amounts of self-respect. When I started doing that I found that I had a lot of beautiful and not-so-beautiful women attracted to me.
Not very. But man, working the bars in the 80s was a dynamite experience in "pick-up". After the 80s it went back to, Not Very.
I never did well in the typical "pick up" places like bars/clubs/parties. I'm too shy, too much of a prick and generally not all that motivated to try to convince a girl she likes me. It's not worth my time just to get laid. In settings like school/work or small gatherings of friends and I was usually dynamite. I also used to tended to have more women friends than men and the ladies always had a friend or two who were down with me and my angry/funny personality.
hmmmm, one of my brother's best friends, i've gone camping with the dude a couple times... oh, and thinly disguised "waiting for macbeth" thread...
