I've read this forum many times as a guest and it's always good for a laugh. You guys are like a bunch of gossipy women.
Bingo. Unless you can deal with a girl being your "sister", move on. You're just wasting valuable time that you could be using on a woman you might actually have a chance with.
actually, just say, "...you mean in a West Virginian sense?" And then after you go out, sleep with her mom. And then if she gets mad, say,"I thought I was like your brother to you???? Liar!"
The thing is, it is not how YOU act toward chicks that matter. It is how chicks act toward YOU that wins the day. You could be the smoothest brother on the block, but if those skills aren't backed up by hard evidence that you got women all over you then it don't matter a lick to the girl you really WANT to be with. Now the thing is, you have to be smooth to even have a chance at having girls all over you, and if you have no game then you aren't likely to be able to pull it that off, either. Thus, you look desperate, and your words mean nothing. And lets face it, you probably are desparate. Of course, some of this can be shown in other ways as well. You aren't likely to have women around you eveytime you want to meet someone. Thus a woman looks at other cues, such as a nice car equals money which in turn equals power, the way you walk and form your words and what you say all that must equal in her mind a man that has IT, where she knows that she is in the presence of the real deal. If all else fails, get er drunk!
She's not attracted to you. Sorry, but if she was in the least she wouldn't say that. At this point your only hope is that she has a really bad experience with multiple guys and you become this amazing soulmate-like friend to her. Also simultaneously you'll have to work out a lot. I'm surprised I was the first to be honest/realistic.
ok, for my third response, I read something that worked for someone I knew. Same situation, he hung out with her a lot hoping that by being by her side all the time would work and she would suddenly be attracted. WRONG. Anyway, so he had to go away for a while and didn't have time to contact her much and she ended up missing him. When he came back he was really busy and kept her wanting, and the missing eventually turned into something else. He was still good friends, just not available. Just like normal people, girls want things that they can't get. The more rational male knows what he wants very quickly, but womens can be tricked into wanting something if you make it rare or difficult to get, especially if they thought it was an easy thing to get at first. Of course if you never had a shot to begin with, then you just wasted your time.
Hmmm so you guys are basically saying... Dick = P*ssy. WELL THAT MAEKZ SENZ... hmmmm, lets test this BRILLIANT HYPOTHESIS HAY FINALZBOND UR A FRICKIN FAT SLUTE WITH POOP 4 HAIR!!!!!
Damn, seems like we get a variation of this thread once every couple of months. Some of you guys just need to sack up. Over half the reason you get in the "friend-zone" is because you put yourself there. Here's an idea: actively pursue the chick in a way that lets her know you want her as more than a friend. Commit to the goal and follow through. You'll end up as a friend 99% of the time if you do this wishy-washy BS where you try to act like her best friend while holding on to the hope that she will eventually be attracted to you on a sexual level. Make your intentions known from the on-set, take a shot, and if it doesn't work out you can go on with your life rather than agonizing and over-analyzing the situation.
you should go out with her and some of her friends one night. while out flirt with her friends and dont pay any attention to her, to make it seem like you have no interest. its a proven fact women want what they cant have!
Women want what's attractive. What're you guys deluding yourselves into with this lame teen movie psychology? Personality, looks, money or sense of humor. That's all guys. Definitely notoriety works too in the short term, someone they can brag to their friends about. Otherwise quit being so emo or telling him to compromise himself for a FRIEND who wants none of it obviously. Want ass? Buy a hooker! But, but, but, but, but, well, well, well..... NO!
Sorry dude - you are on the friend ladder - and you're probably not getting off. But if it makes you feel any better, according to ladder theory, you probably never had a shot at all.
ummmm...the non-lesbians? also, maybe the lesbians that want to reproduce in a way other than artificial insemination?
